HUMAN NATURE ...........इंसानी -फितरत --- (15092020)

इंसानी -फितरत 

इस राहे मुहब्बत की तुम बात न पूछो , 

अनमोल जो हुआ करते थे बेमोल बिक गए इसमें 

उनकी किस्मत का भी कैसा सितारा होगा ? 
जिनको हमारी तरह तक़दीर ने मारा होगा ? 
किनारे पर बैठे लोग क्या जाने डूबने वाले को 
मरने से पहले , किस किस को पुकारा होगा .? 

पूर्व प्रधानमंत्री लाल बहादुर शास्त्री , 

एक बार देश के सुदूर इलाकों के दौरे पर थे। 
वह आम जनता से मिलने ऐसे क्षेत्रों में, 
जा रहे थे जहां सुविधा के नाम पर कुछ भी नहीं था। 
पर शास्त्री जी के उत्साह में कोई कमी नहीं आ रही थी। 
हालांकि उनके साथ चलने वाले लोग परेशान हो रहे थे। 
कुछ लोगों ने शास्त्री जी को लौट चलने की भी सलाह दी 
पर वे नहीं माने। 

ऐसे ही एक छोटे गांव में बड़ी देर तक पैदल घूमते हुए. 
उनके पैर में थोड़ी चोट लग गई। उनके साथ आए ; 
लोगों ने बड़ी मुश्किल से एक डॉक्टर को बुलवाया। 
डॉक्टर ने आते ही उनके जख्म का उपचार किया 
और कुछ दवाइयां खाने को दीं। फिर कुछ जरूरी 
हिदायतें देकर वह जाने लगा, तो शास्त्री जी ने उसकी 
फीस उसके हाथ में पकड़ाई। डॉक्टर को इसका 
अंदाजा नहीं था। वह पैसे देखकर सकपका गया।

उसने शास्त्री जी को पैसे लौटाते हुए कहा- 
महोदय, इतनी छोटी सेवा के बदले फीस 
देकर शर्मिंदा न करें। मैं आपके काम आ सका, 
यही बहुत है। शास्त्री जी विनम्रतापूर्वक बोले-" 
डॉक्टर साहब, मैं आपको पैसे दे सकता हूं तो, 
आपको पैसे ले लेने चाहिए। हां, यदि कभी कोई 
निर्धन और असहाय व्यक्ति आपको मिले, 
जो फीस न चुका सकता हो तो आप उसका 
इलाज बिना फीस के करना। अगर आप ऐसा 
कर सकें तो यह मेरे ऊपर बहुत बड़ा अहसान होगा। 
यह सुनकर डॉक्टर बेहद प्रभावित हुआ। 
उसने अपना सारा जीवन गरीबों की सेवा में लगा दिया। 
शास्त्री जी ने इसी तरह कई लोगों का जीवन बदला था।

Never think that anyone is better than you. There is no need to look around and compare yourself with others. Each person you see is a unique individual with their own life, challenges, and goals. The only person better than you at any time is the person you have yet to become. But for now, you are awesome... and that's all that matters ...!! 

Teacher must know his moral strength, but than most importantly Who the real teachers are? How one is qualified to be a teacher? There are many issues which need to be discussed ruthlessly and impartially.

I’m mistaken for a flirt when I’m friendly. I’m mistaken for being mean when I’m honest.
I’m mistaken for sad when I want to be alone.
I’m mistaken for shy when I’m quiet.
Quit assuming and get to know me.


A GIRL can be your best friend,
A worst enemy,
A cute sister,
A lovely sweetheart or
A real stupid.. It all depends on how u treat her.or how she takes u ?

Stay committed to your decisions,
but stay flexible in your approach.

When YOu reject a person YOu have cared for once, YOu r actually rejecting YOurself, YOur feelings and YOur emotions bcoz somewhere that person hurt u deeply by rejecting u.
So u would carry on with a poker face rather than letting the person know how badly u were hurt. That's ur way of protecting urself from further hurts!!!!

Give GOD a chance, and
HE will make something beautiful out of your Life?
Believe and Have a faith in Him..
"You have no other choice."

Yesterday is a Cancelled Check;
Tomorrow is a Promissory Note;
Today is the only Cash you have so spend it wisely.

:- If the Road is Beautiful then, Worry About the Destination, But if the Destination is Beautiful, Then Don't Worry About The Road!

"Almost all of our relationships begin and most of them continue as forms of mutual exploitation, a mental or physical barter, to be terminated when one or both parties run out of goods."

While I was moving, recently, I found a 'Build a Bear' that my son had given me close to 10 years ago. He had recorded his voice in the recording device embedded in the palm of the bear. This is what I heard as I had pulled it down from the top closet shelf: "I love you mommy. I'll love you forever.". Be still my heart.

Tears filled my eyes, for sure. The funny thing is that I hadn't planned on moving. The home that I was renting was being taken off the rental market (homeowner wanted to move back into it), so it was an 'unwanted' move. Hearing that little 5 year old voice, as tho he was standing in the room looking at me with those adorable big eyes, made the packing and uhaul and movers all worth it. It was such a gift! I had forgotten all about that bear and that recording. 

Now it's a treasure I'll never forget about. RECORD YOUR CHILDREN's VOICES!!! Their voices will touch you much more profoundly than photos. :)

Sounds bit weird but fact is that .. Nothing brings two people together like the mutual hatred of another person.
I truely understand the statement " You couldn't handle the truth". The world is so conditioned to accept lies that the truth is often times considered imagination. 

Zindagi mein hum nay kabhi Kuch chaha hi nahi,
Jise chaha ussay kabhi paaya hi nahi,
Jise paaya ussay yuhi kho diya,Jaise Zindagi mein kabhi koi aayahi nahi.
When money speaks, nobody checks grammar!
Good morning

Talent is God given. Be humble.
Fame is man-given. Be grateful.
Conceit is self-given. Be careful.

‎"Knowing who you are is the most valuable asset "
you will ever have.... There is an internal GPS
emotional system that all of us has and,
when you are connected to that it is very hard
to make mistakes."
 
OH MY GOD WHY IT IS NOT OPENING DESPITE MY FULL THROTTLE?

We can never judge the lives of others,
because each person knows only their
own pain and renunciation.
It's one thing to feel that you are on the right path, but it's another to think that yours is the only path. ~ Paulo Coelho