WOMEN ARE ALWAYS LIKE THAT ????

Me and my wife were watching TV when she said, 'I'm tired, and it's getting late. too, I think I'll go to bed.' her daily dose of saas bahu  serial was over ,she had no interest in News channels which I was surfing?

She went to the kitchen to make sandwiches for the next day's Breakfast.. Rinsed out the microwave bowls, took meat out of the freezer for supper the following evening, checked the cereal box levels, filled the sugar container, put spoons and bowls on the table . ironed some clothes for the morning.

She then put some wet clothes in the dryer, put a load of clothes into the washer, ironed a shirt and secured a loose button. She picked up the game pieces left on the table, put the phone back on the charger and put the telephone book into the drawer. organised all the spread out news papers.

She watered the plants, emptied a wastebasket and hung up a towel to dry. She yawned and stretched and headed for the bedroom. but still worried for ?

She stopped by the desk and wrote a note to our daughter’s teacher , counted out some cash for the excursion and pulled a text book out from hiding under the chair.

She signed a birthday card for a friend, addressed and stamped the envelope and wrote a quick note for the grocery store. She put both near her bag.

She then washed her face with 3 in 1 cleanser, put on her Night Solution & age fighting moisturizer, brushed and flossed her teeth and filed her nails.

I called out, 'I thought you were going to bed.' 'I'm on my way,' she said. She put some water into the dog's dish , then made sure the doors were locked and the verandha light was on.

She looked in on each of the kids and turned out their bedside lamps and radios, hung up a shirt, threw some dirty socks into the basket, and had a brief conversation with the one up still doing homework.

In her own room, she set the alarm; laid out clothing for the next day, straightened up the shoe rack.

She added three things to her 6 most important things to do list. She said her prayers, and visualized the accomplishment of her goals.

About that time, I turned off the TV and announced to no one in particular. 'I'm  also going to bed.' And I did...without another thought. i dont remember what happened after that?  did you notice any thing awkward in our house ?

Anything extraordinary here?

PRINCIPAL OF LEAST ACTIONS___ lessageaffair

• Natural intelligence works effortlessly ,without even a hint to us , Nature is abundantly carefree and judicious to all. Which we call a principle of least action and least interference 
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•                       ,IN FACT this is therefore the principal of love and harmony. 
• IF WE CAN LEARN THIS LESSON FROM NATURE THEN WE CAN EASILY FULFILL OUR DESIRES. If you ever observe "How nature works"? that there is hardly any effort expanded by nature to run this universe :-
• Grass grows without any external pressure, IT just grows on its own.
• Flowers don't do any special effort to bloom ,when the season comes the bloom without anybody's interventions,
• Birds never try very hard to fly ,they also fly when they develop their wings, because it is programmed with by the nature,
• A child grows ,learns to walk ,sleeps ,weeps all on its own .

       "माली सींचे सौ घड़ा ,ऋतू आये फल होए " which means despite best of fertilizers and                     watering,   a fruit tree is not going to bear fruits ,it will bear fruits only when the season becomes favourable to the tree.   

EARTH IS REVOLVING VERY FERROCITIOUSLY;

AROUND it's own axis as well as around the sun ,it is again a programmed nature of earth that it keeps on rotating on such a dizzying speed that it hurtles through the space effortlessly 

.It is in the nature of sun to shine,it is the nature of babies to be in bliss, no body teaches them when they come to this world. similarly it is the nature of the stars to glitter and they do it own their own






 
Similarly it is the nature of a human being to dream and excel in life effort lessly ,it is the human being who can manifest his dreams to reality easily.         
space age explorations would not have been      possible without a human dream,


In vedic science of india it is called principle of economy of efforts:-
('Do less and achieve more,ultimately you come to a state where you do nothing and accomplish every thing ).


That means a faint idea originates in our mind---- and the practical manifestation comes effortlessly,And when you are in perfect harmony with nature ,and are established in your "true self" only then the law of least action comes into force.


Nature is held together by the energy of love (GRAVITY)when your actions are motivated by love they are likely to succeed ,


But when you seek to rule others ,seek money only for yourself for personal gains, then you cut off natural flow of energy towards you ,and it amounts to interference in the expression of nature's intelligence.


On the other hand if your actions are motivated by love then there is no loss of energy, rather it multiplies several folds.                                                                                                   ACCUMULATION OF ENERGY OF LOVE & PEACEFUL CO_EXISTENCE is the power house which you can use to accomplish any task in the world including making enormus amount of money and wealth.


OUR BODY IS LIKE A INVERTER OR A POWER STORAGE DEVICE ,POWER CAN BE ACCUMULATED THROUGH MANY A MEANS "PHYSICAL POWER OR MENTAL POWER"


you assume your body as a device for storage and controlling of energy, if you could learn the technique to generate ,store and expend energy in a most efficient way then creation of wealth or achieving any target is possible.
               EGO THE MAIN VILLAIN;-ego is known to sap most of the constructive energy of our body,when our whole mission is ego centric &you seek power and control over others or you seek approval from others in your actions, then you are rendered inactive, you tend to spend your energy in a wasteful manner ,

FREE THAT ENERGY:- AND chanelise   it the way you want to make more wealth.
when your reference is spiritual,you can harness the power of love to evolve in a manner desirable to you.

LAWS OF LEAST EFFORTS:; 
There are three main components of law of least efforts;

(A)    Acceptance :- Means commitment to the present moment , every thing starts in this moment ,this moment is as it is because the whole universe is as it is this moment alone,you have no control on past and future is yet in the making. when we struggle against this moment then we are actually struggling against the whole universe ,you can wish things to be different in future but in this moment you have to start as you are at this moment.

• (B)   RESPONSIBILITY:- Responsibility is your own ability to move  the things, it doesn't help by blaming others for your situations or cursing yourself vis -a-vis your destiny. Having accepted the present moment as it is ,circumstances,this problems ,this event,.

• Your focus on responsibility will expect you to react to the present situation with your best possible efforts. All problems come carrying along a basket of opportunities , if you are still occupied with blame games with others then the opportunities are lost for ever, Transform opportunities into awareness and don't allow them to go waste,

• (C)   THE DEFENSELESSNESS:- The third most vital component of "Law of least efforts" is defenselessness ,you ,once decided to accept the present moment as your guiding spirit, you do not need to convince or persuade others of your mind or thought process. if we observe people around us  99% of them will be spending 99% of their productive time in proving their point of view to the people again and again fruitlessly .

• RELINQUISHMENT:- Relinquish the need to toe others for getting appreciated or flattered.This is just waste of most precious of our time. When you remain open to all points of views you are accepting the super NATURE ,your dreams and desires will flow with the flow of nature's will ,then you can release your ambitious intentions without any attachment &wait for a suitable time for your desires to blossom in the lap of mother nature.
• BE ASSURED WHEN THE TIME & SEASON IS RIGHT , YOUR DESIRES WILL MANIFEST IN TO REALITIES"

                  

         "  THIS IS THE LAW OF LEAST EFFORTS TO ACCOMPLISHMENT"

HUMAN NATURE ...........इंसानी -फितरत --- (15092020)

इंसानी -फितरत 

इस राहे मुहब्बत की तुम बात न पूछो , 

अनमोल जो हुआ करते थे बेमोल बिक गए इसमें 

उनकी किस्मत का भी कैसा सितारा होगा ? 
जिनको हमारी तरह तक़दीर ने मारा होगा ? 
किनारे पर बैठे लोग क्या जाने डूबने वाले को 
मरने से पहले , किस किस को पुकारा होगा .? 

पूर्व प्रधानमंत्री लाल बहादुर शास्त्री , 

एक बार देश के सुदूर इलाकों के दौरे पर थे। 
वह आम जनता से मिलने ऐसे क्षेत्रों में, 
जा रहे थे जहां सुविधा के नाम पर कुछ भी नहीं था। 
पर शास्त्री जी के उत्साह में कोई कमी नहीं आ रही थी। 
हालांकि उनके साथ चलने वाले लोग परेशान हो रहे थे। 
कुछ लोगों ने शास्त्री जी को लौट चलने की भी सलाह दी 
पर वे नहीं माने। 

ऐसे ही एक छोटे गांव में बड़ी देर तक पैदल घूमते हुए. 
उनके पैर में थोड़ी चोट लग गई। उनके साथ आए ; 
लोगों ने बड़ी मुश्किल से एक डॉक्टर को बुलवाया। 
डॉक्टर ने आते ही उनके जख्म का उपचार किया 
और कुछ दवाइयां खाने को दीं। फिर कुछ जरूरी 
हिदायतें देकर वह जाने लगा, तो शास्त्री जी ने उसकी 
फीस उसके हाथ में पकड़ाई। डॉक्टर को इसका 
अंदाजा नहीं था। वह पैसे देखकर सकपका गया।

उसने शास्त्री जी को पैसे लौटाते हुए कहा- 
महोदय, इतनी छोटी सेवा के बदले फीस 
देकर शर्मिंदा न करें। मैं आपके काम आ सका, 
यही बहुत है। शास्त्री जी विनम्रतापूर्वक बोले-" 
डॉक्टर साहब, मैं आपको पैसे दे सकता हूं तो, 
आपको पैसे ले लेने चाहिए। हां, यदि कभी कोई 
निर्धन और असहाय व्यक्ति आपको मिले, 
जो फीस न चुका सकता हो तो आप उसका 
इलाज बिना फीस के करना। अगर आप ऐसा 
कर सकें तो यह मेरे ऊपर बहुत बड़ा अहसान होगा। 
यह सुनकर डॉक्टर बेहद प्रभावित हुआ। 
उसने अपना सारा जीवन गरीबों की सेवा में लगा दिया। 
शास्त्री जी ने इसी तरह कई लोगों का जीवन बदला था।

Never think that anyone is better than you. There is no need to look around and compare yourself with others. Each person you see is a unique individual with their own life, challenges, and goals. The only person better than you at any time is the person you have yet to become. But for now, you are awesome... and that's all that matters ...!! 

Teacher must know his moral strength, but than most importantly Who the real teachers are? How one is qualified to be a teacher? There are many issues which need to be discussed ruthlessly and impartially.

I’m mistaken for a flirt when I’m friendly. I’m mistaken for being mean when I’m honest.
I’m mistaken for sad when I want to be alone.
I’m mistaken for shy when I’m quiet.
Quit assuming and get to know me.


A GIRL can be your best friend,
A worst enemy,
A cute sister,
A lovely sweetheart or
A real stupid.. It all depends on how u treat her.or how she takes u ?

Stay committed to your decisions,
but stay flexible in your approach.

When YOu reject a person YOu have cared for once, YOu r actually rejecting YOurself, YOur feelings and YOur emotions bcoz somewhere that person hurt u deeply by rejecting u.
So u would carry on with a poker face rather than letting the person know how badly u were hurt. That's ur way of protecting urself from further hurts!!!!

Give GOD a chance, and
HE will make something beautiful out of your Life?
Believe and Have a faith in Him..
"You have no other choice."

Yesterday is a Cancelled Check;
Tomorrow is a Promissory Note;
Today is the only Cash you have so spend it wisely.

:- If the Road is Beautiful then, Worry About the Destination, But if the Destination is Beautiful, Then Don't Worry About The Road!

"Almost all of our relationships begin and most of them continue as forms of mutual exploitation, a mental or physical barter, to be terminated when one or both parties run out of goods."

While I was moving, recently, I found a 'Build a Bear' that my son had given me close to 10 years ago. He had recorded his voice in the recording device embedded in the palm of the bear. This is what I heard as I had pulled it down from the top closet shelf: "I love you mommy. I'll love you forever.". Be still my heart.

Tears filled my eyes, for sure. The funny thing is that I hadn't planned on moving. The home that I was renting was being taken off the rental market (homeowner wanted to move back into it), so it was an 'unwanted' move. Hearing that little 5 year old voice, as tho he was standing in the room looking at me with those adorable big eyes, made the packing and uhaul and movers all worth it. It was such a gift! I had forgotten all about that bear and that recording. 

Now it's a treasure I'll never forget about. RECORD YOUR CHILDREN's VOICES!!! Their voices will touch you much more profoundly than photos. :)

Sounds bit weird but fact is that .. Nothing brings two people together like the mutual hatred of another person.
I truely understand the statement " You couldn't handle the truth". The world is so conditioned to accept lies that the truth is often times considered imagination. 

Zindagi mein hum nay kabhi Kuch chaha hi nahi,
Jise chaha ussay kabhi paaya hi nahi,
Jise paaya ussay yuhi kho diya,Jaise Zindagi mein kabhi koi aayahi nahi.
When money speaks, nobody checks grammar!
Good morning

Talent is God given. Be humble.
Fame is man-given. Be grateful.
Conceit is self-given. Be careful.

‎"Knowing who you are is the most valuable asset "
you will ever have.... There is an internal GPS
emotional system that all of us has and,
when you are connected to that it is very hard
to make mistakes."
 
OH MY GOD WHY IT IS NOT OPENING DESPITE MY FULL THROTTLE?

We can never judge the lives of others,
because each person knows only their
own pain and renunciation.
It's one thing to feel that you are on the right path, but it's another to think that yours is the only path. ~ Paulo Coelho