Monday, January 7, 2013

COUNT DEEDS BEFORE NEEDS


LIFE IS NOT WHAT WE SEE IT IS DIFFERENT THAN OUR EYES PERCEIVE







जरूर पढ़े... 󾍛 एक आदमी जंगल से गुजर रहा था । उसे चार स्त्रियां मिली। 󾬴उसने पहली से पूछा - बहन तुम्हारा नाम क्या हैं ? 󾁄उसने कहा "बुद्धि " ✴तुम कहां रहती हो? 󾁄मनुष्य के दिमाग में। 󾬴दूसरी स्त्री से पूछा - बहन तुम्हारा नाम क्या हैं ? 󾁄" लज्जा "। ✴तुम कहां रहती हो ? 󾁄आंख में । 󾬴तीसरी से पूछा - तुम्हारा क्या नाम हैं ? 󾁄"हिम्मत" ✴कहां रहती हो ? 󾁄दिल में । 󾬴चौथी से पूछा - तुम्हारा नाम क्या हैं ? 󾁄"तंदुरूस्ती" ✴कहां रहती हो ? 󾁄पेट में। वह आदमी अब थोडा आगे बढा तों फिर उसे चार पुरूष मिले। 󾬳उसने पहले पुरूष से पूछा - तुम्हारा नाम क्या हैं ? 󾁄" क्रोध " ✴कहां रहतें हो ? 󾁄दिमाग में, ✴दिमाग में तो बुद्धि रहती हैं, तुम कैसे रहते हो? 󾁄जब मैं वहां रहता हुं तो बुद्धि वहां से विदा हो जाती हैं। 󾬳दूसरे पुरूष से पूछा - तुम्हारा नाम क्या हैं ? 󾁄उसने कहां -" लोभ"। ✴कहां रहते हो? 󾁄आंख में। ✴आंख में तो लज्जा रहती हैं तुम कैसे रहते हो। 󾁄जब मैं आता हूं तो लज्जा वहां से प्रस्थान कर जाती हैं । 󾬳तीसरें से पूछा - तुम्हारा नाम क्या हैं ? 󾁄जबाब मिला "भय"। ✴कहां रहते हो? 󾁄दिल में। ✴दिल में तो हिम्मत रहती हैं तुम कैसे रहते हो? 󾁄जब मैं आता हूं तो हिम्मत वहां से नौ दो ग्यारह हो जाती हैं। 󾬳चौथे से पूछा तुम्हारा नाम क्या हैं? 󾁄उसने कहा - "रोग"। ✴कहां रहतें हो? 󾁄पेट में। ✴पेट में तो तंदरूस्ती रहती हैं? 󾁄जब मैं आता हूं तो तंदरूस्ती वहां से रवाना हो जाती हैं। 󾀿 जीवन की हर विपरीत परिस्थिथि में यदि हम उपरोक्त वर्णित बातो को याद रखे तो कई चीजे टाली जा सकती है । 󾓒󾓠󾓒󾓠󾓒 󾌵 जरा मुस्कुरा के देख, दुनिया हसती नजर आएगी! 󾀊 सुबह सैर कर के तो देख, तेरी सेहत ठीक हो जाएगी! 󾦃 व्यसन छोड के तो देख, तेरी इज्जत बन जाएगी! 󾒵 खर्च घटा कर के तो देख, तुझे अच्छी नीँद आएगी! 󾓝 मेहनत कर के तो देख, पैसे की तंगी चली जाएगी! 󾓷 संसार की अच्छाई तो देख, तेरी बुराई भाग जाएगी! 󾓲 ईश्वर का ध्यान कर के तो देख, तेरी उलझने दुर हो जाएगी! 󾍛 माता पिता की बात मान कर तो देख, तेरी जिन्दगी संवर जाएगी! 󾓒󾓠󾓒󾓠󾓒


The below message is for all the newly married couple and the people who are going to get married sooner...It's a lovely story read it carefully...... One of the important lesson about life that one should not miss...
Monica married Hitesh this day. At the end of the wedding party, Monica's mother gave her a newly opened bank saving passbook with Rs.1000 deposit amount.

Mother: 'Monica, take this passbook. Keep it as a record of your marriage life.When there's something happy and memorable happened in your new life, put some money in. Write down
what it's about next to the line.
The more memorable the event is, the more money you can put in. I've done the first one for you today. Do the others with Hitesh. When you look back after years, you can know how much happiness you've had.'
Monica shared this with Hitesh when getting home. They both thought it was a great idea and were anxious to know when the second deposit can be made.
This was what they did after certain time:
- 7 Feb: Rs.100, first birthday celebration for      Hitesh after marriage

- 1 Mar: Rs.300, salary raise for Monica

- 20 Mar: Rs.200, vacation trip to Bali

- 15 Apr: Rs.2000, Monica got pregnant

- 1 Jun: Rs.1000, Hitesh got promoted
..... and so on...

However, after years, they started fighting and arguing for trivial things. They didn't talk much. They regretted that they had married the most nasty people in the world.... no more love...Kind of typical nowadays, huh?
One day Monica talked to her Mother:-'Mom, we can't stand it anymore. We agree to divorce. I can't imagine how I decided to marry this guy!!!'

Mother: 'Sure, girl, that's no big deal. Just do whatever you want if you really can't stand it. But before that, do one thing first. Remember the saving passbook I gave you on your wedding day? Take out all money & spend it first. You shouldn't keep any record of such a poor marriage.'

Monica thought it was true. So she went to the bank, waiting at the queue and planning to cancel the account. While she was waiting, she took a look at the passbook record. She looked, and looked, and looked. Then the memory of all the previous joy and happiness just came up her mind. Her eyes were then filled with tears.

She left and went back home
When she was home, she handed the passbook to Hitesh, asked him to spend the money before getting divorce.

The next day, gave the passbook back to Monica. She found a new deposit of Rs.5000. And a line next to the record: 'This is the day I notice how much I've loved you throughout all these years. How much happiness you've brought me.'

They hugged and cried together  putting the passbook back to the safe.

Do you know how much . they had saved when they retired? I did ask. I believe the money did not matter any more after they had gone through all the good years in their life.

"When you fall, in any way, Don't see the place where you fell, Instead see the place from where you slipped.

Life is about correcting mistakes.


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