कर्म ,संस्कार और व्यवहार ----------कबीर के विचार

कबीर के विचार 

कर्म ,संस्कार और व्यवहार 

प्रेरक कथा :  एक देहाती कहावत है “बाढे पूत पिताके धरमे और खेती उपजे अपने करमे” अर्थात माता-पिताद्वारा किया हुआ धर्माचरणका प्रभाव संततिपर अवश्य ही पडता है और खेतीके लिए पुरुषार्थ आवश्यक है |

आजकल माता-पिता स्वयं साधना नहीं करते और न ही धर्माचरण करते हैं , उसके विपरीत पैशाचिक प्रवृत्तिवाले पाश्चात्य संस्कृतिका अंधानुकरण करते हैं और तत्पश्चात अपने संतानके दिशाहीन होनेपर दुखी होते हैं | वस्तुतः बच्चे अनुकरण प्रिय होते हैं और अपने घरके सदस्याओंके संस्कारको सहज ही आत्मसात कर लेते हैं |

 साधना इतनी सूक्ष्म होती है कि वह हमारे कुलके संस्कारमें अतर्भूत हो जाती है | वैदिक संस्कृतिके अलावा इस संसारकी कोई भी संस्कृति सत्त्व गुण आधारित नहीं है | अतः अपने बच्चोंके अंदर वैदिक संस्कृतिके संसकारका बीजरोपण करना प्रत्येक माता-पिताका मूल धर्म है | माता पिताकी साधनाका तेजस्विता संतानमें दिखती ही है इस संबंधमें एक छोटी सी कथा बताती हूं |

एक बार एक पंडितने अनेक शास्त्रार्थ कर विद्वानोंको परास्त कर अनेक प्रशस्ति पत्र एकत्रित कर रखे थे | उसे अपने ज्ञानका अभिमान हो गया था | 

एक दिन किसीने उनसे कहा “ यदि संत कबीरको शास्त्रार्थमें पराजित कर सको तो माने “!! अहंकारने पंडितके विवेकको ऐसे ही नष्ट कर दिया था अतः वे अपने सर्व प्रशस्ति पत्र और ग्रंथको एकत्रित कर, एक बैलगाडीमें लाद, संत कबीरसे शास्त्रार्थ करने निकल पडे |

 पूछते-पूछते संत कबीरके गांव पहुंचे | संत कबीरकी दोनों संतान उच्च कोटिके साधक थे | पंडित संत कबीरके घर पहुंचे और उनकी पुत्रीसे पूछा “क्या कबीर यहीं रहता है मुझे उनसे शास्त्रार्थ करना है | 

उनकी पुत्रीने बैलगाडीमें लादे ग्रन्थोंको देख, सब समझ गयी और कहने लगी “ आपसे चूक हो गयी वे यहां नहीं रहते, यहांसे कुछ दूर पश्चिमकी ओर एक गांव है वहां एक टीला है उसीपर उनका घर है” | 

पंडितने उसकी बात मन बैलगाडी पश्चिमकी ओर ले ली और अत्यधिक भटकनेके पश्चात पुनः संत कबीरके घर पहुंच गए, पुनः उनकी भेंट उनकी पुत्रीसे हुई | वे भडक उठे, कहने लगे, “ कबीरका घर यही हैं और तूने मुझे दिशाहीन कर इतना भटकनेपर विवश किया, तुम्हें लाज आना चाहिए, जाओ तुरंत कबीरको बुलाओ, 

(अहंकारके आवेशमें उन्हें एक बुनकरको संत कहना स्वीकार्य नहीं था ) | कबीरदासकी पुत्री बोलीं

“ऊंचे शिखर पर घर कबीर का, जहां सिलहिली गैब ( FISLAN) | पाओं न टीके पपील ( सूक्ष्म से सूक्ष्म जीव चींटी भी नहीं टिक सकता ) का, पण्डित लादे बैल ||

अर्थात “हे पंडित, संत कबीर जिस ऊंचाईपर हैं (अर्थात अध्यात्मके उस गहराईमें पहुंच चुके है जहां कोई विरला ही पहुंचता है ) वहां इतनी फिसलन है कि चीटीं जैसे सूक्ष्म जीवका पांव फिसल सकता है, तो आप इस बैलगाड़ीमें लादे ग्रन्थोंके समान रूपी अहंकार के  भार लेकर उनसे कैसे मिल सकते हैं (अहंकारी संतोंकों नहीं पहचान सकता ) ?

 उसकी यह बात सुन पंडित लज्जित हो गया और उससे क्षमा मांगने लगा और उससे उसका परिचय पूछा | जब उसने अपना परिचय बताया तो उसने कहा ,” जिसकी पुत्री इतनी तेजस्वी है, वह पिता कैसा होगा , मैं आपके दर्शन कर धन्य होगया  कृपया संत कबीरके दर्शन कैसे हो सकते हैं यह बताएं” !

पहले अपने हृदय को शुद्ध कीजिये, अपने अभिमान को घर छोड़ कर  तब  कुछ समय उपरान्त फिर आइये देखूँगी गर पिताजी घर पे हुए तो मिलवाऊँगी 

A FEW EASY LIFE TIPS TO PONDER 07012019

Wife casually calls her husband at the office one afternoon:
Wife: Hi, Kaise ho?
Husband: Theek hun.
Wife: Aaj kya khaya Lunch mean?

Husband : Tumhe bas yehi batein karni aati hain, kya khaya,

 kaun sa Serial dekha, kaun sa Song suna....
Wife: Oh!! Ok Ok, ye batao ki how should RBI fight these 

inflationary trends with minimum intervention in the Money

Markets? And what should be the role of the Finance Ministry to control inward

Foreign remittances? ??

Husband : (after a few seconds of silence)... 

Daal Chawal khaye Hain, Dahi aur Salad bhi tha

COMMONSENSE VS NON SENSE,

"If two wrongs don't make a right, YOU MAY try the third &

 could make it right! "Life is something to do when you 

can't get to sleep.,

At least YOU become productive in plenty of time at your disposal in the night , with eyes wide awake? that too without anybody being able to see you? and your wrongs only are known confined 

ONLY to you!


"The better I get to know men, the more I find myself

 loving dogs.

but the only problem they understand my gestures but I cant"


Sports is like a war without the killing. If don't believe me then see the ASIAN GAMES live going in CHINA

 and see what a fight is going on? Not far lands but for medals ""


I detest life-insurance agents: they always argue that

 I am a mortal, shall someday die, which is not TRUE

 I am trying to follow the best of the health practices,

 helping people to live happily as ever, I am sure my 

noble deeds SHALL make live FOREVER IN THEIR HEARTS, 

Do I still need an Insurance cover?

""Even a stopped clock is right twice a day."" what about you?

Computers are useless. They can only give you answers.from

 their recorded data memory " which are not capable of 

solving my problems"
I'm willing to admit that I may not always be right, 

but I believe am never wrong." too?


"Writing books is the closest to men ever having to come near

 to like a childbearing."
"Whenever you want to marry someone,

 go have lunch with his ex-wife." you may have to Rethink "


The trouble with being poor is that it takes up all your time." 

in worrying AND identifying opportunities, about how to

 make money to survive ?"The opportunity once knocked.at my door

  My doorman threw him out" believing it to be an intruder?

Always remember that you are absolutely unique.

 Just like everyone else. Then why to lose your identity by imitating others" and feel like an inferior copy cat?

Health food makes me sick." as criminals irk me

 with their high earning capacity?"Obviously, crime pays, 

or there'd be no crime and an elite class of criminals in Politics?


.""Laugh and the world laughs with you, 

start SNORING and you have to sleep alone.

" your wife also slipping away to another room ?"

Morning comes whether you set the alarm or not.

"Provided you have windows in your bedroom " 

Similarly, Money can't buy love, but it improves your

 bargaining power"

"I have had to face more trouble with myself & my own 

thinking, than with any other PERSON in the world I've met."?

"I think age is a very high price to pay for maturity.
"The only time a woman really succeeds in changing a man

 is when he is a baby." if you marry her, you must understand

 that

"Marriage is given and take. You'd better give it to her

 or she'll take it anyway." "Most women set out to try to 

change a man, and when they have changed him

 they do not like him."

"If at first, you don't succeed, in any of your moves?

 failure may be your preferred style." 

If people laugh at you for your moves? " 

then you ought to believe that 

"Comedy is simply a funny way of being serious in your

 moving style."

"All women should know how to take care of children. 

Most of them will have a husband someday."

"A man in love is incomplete until he has married. 

Till he's finished."

"True friends stab you in the front."
"The trouble with the rat race is that even if you win, 

you're still a rat."

"Women are wiser than men because they know less 

and understand more.""The older I grow the more I distrust 

the familiar doctrine that age brings wisdom."

"Happiness is having a large, loving, caring, close-knit family

 in another city."

"Most of our obstacles would melt away
if, instead of cowering before them,
we should make up our minds
to walk boldly through them."

"There is only one way to defeat the enemy, 

and that is to write as well as one can. 

The best argument is an undeniably good book."

"We have to have the money to do the work we want to do,

 as well as to keep a roof over our heads and food on the table.

 Fat commissions are good, but not always easy to come by, 

and each new painting takes its time. So we need to find every

way possible to earn extra income from our work.

"It is better to look ahead and prepare than to look back

 and regret."

"I have always thought the actions of men the best 

interpreters of their thoughts."

"Avoid having your ego so close to your position that when 

your position falls, your ego goes with it."
It is always better to keep on doing something every day 

and commit mistakes than keep waiting indefinitely to achieve

perfection to start working. Mistakes are not

the only test of our abilities but also a continuation of our efforts!


In youth we learn; so many things but wait to apply most of

 them in our old age, because we start analytical understanding

 of everything at the fag end, when we have come out of our

 the rat race for our own survival and family obligations., 

we the seniors believe that "The young minds really do not 

know enough to match the experiences of older generations,

" they are a restless pool of untapped raw energy? 

they are not Prudent as well ?, AND therefore they are daring 

and adventurous, who can dare to attempt the impossible? 

--and surprisingly they achieve it, comfortably, generation 

after generations. much faster and better than their mentors,

MORAL of the story is, too much reliance on experience 

slows down your overall performances?


A humble reminder in this Wedding Season to Newly Wedded

 Couples & All of us too: Remember this great Quote always:

 "Third person never creates misunderstanding between two

 people, but a misunderstanding between two people creates

 space for the third Person always"

....Have a great start to a new week!!

Life is just not an ordinary excursion trip in the world.

 where tourists come and leave at their will. life has a cycle unique for each and every
living being on this earth, some live for a few moments and few

live for years after years?
their genetics formation has determined them all for their time of procreation, life, death. and so on,

human beings are included too.

3 DOSTON KI KAHANI
gyaan
Daulat
Bharosa
Tino Dost They Ek Aisa Waqt Aaya ke Tino ko Juda Hona Pada.

Tino Ne Ek Dusrey Se Sawal kiya ke Wo kahan Jayenge ?
Gyaan Bola : Main education institute aur School Jaunga
Daulat Ne kaha : Main Mahal or Ameeron ke Pas Jaunga
Lekin Bharosa Khamosh Raha
Dono Ne Wajah Poochi To Bharose Ne Thandi Aah Bhar ke kaha

Main 1 Baar Chala Gaya, Toh Phir Kabhi Wapas Nahi Aaunga 

Police: Khabar hai k aapke Ghar me visphotak samagari hai.
Santa-Sir khabar to ekdum pakki hai par Wo abhi Maike gyi Hain... :))

पुलिस ने एक बार संता को पकड लिया , और बोले तुम्हारे घर क़ी तलाशी लेनी है ,हमे पता चला है क़ी तुम्हारे घर में विस्फोटक सामिग्री है ?

संता :- सर खबर तो एकदम पक्की है , पर वो अभी माइके गई हुई है ....

आप के चारों और इतने लोग हैं ? और सभी अपनी अपनी विशेषताएँ लिये 

अपने कार्यों में व्येस्त हैं, आप जिनसे भी मिलेंगे ,आप को उनसे कुछ न कुछ

 सीखने को मिलेगा , उनेह सुनना व् उनकी बातों से कुछ सीखना , 

हमारे ही काम आता है ? क्यों क़ी कोई इंसान सब कुछ नहीं जानता ,

पर सारे इंसान कुछ न कुछ अवश्य जानते हैं ,आपको उनसे सीखने

 के लिये अपने अहम् का परित्याग करना होगा व् उनेह आदर सहित 

सुनना होगा !

Listen to everyone and learn from everyone.BECAUSE
Nobody knows everything but everyone knows something..!!...good


मरीज : डाक्टर साहिब मैं शाम को छे बजे आ जाऊं ?
डाक्टर : मैं शाम छे बजे के बाद अपने क्लिनिक पर नहीं बैठता हूँ !
मरीज :तो क्या छे बजे के बाद आप खडे होकर मरीजों को देखते हैं ?

एक चोर रात किसी घर में चोरी करने को घुसा , उसने तिजोरी तोडने

 क़ी कोशिश क़ी उसकी नज़र तिजोरी पर लगी एक चिट पर पड़ी !

" तिजोरी का ताला तोडने क़ी जरुरत नहीं है ",
सिर्फ तिजोरी पर लगे बटनों से 100 नंबर प्रेस कर्रें ?

 तिजोरी खुद बी खुद खुल जायेगी !
यह पढ़ कर चोर ने वैसा ही किया , थोड़ी ही देर में पुलिस वहां पहुँच गई 

और उसे धर दबोचा !
चोर ने जाते जाते मालिक को घुर कर देखा और बोला , 

" तुम्हारे इस धोके से मेरा पूरी इन्सनिअत पर से विश्वास उठ गया है !


Dr Rockfeller was the first American multi-billionaire amongst

 the whole world business community, He established

 "Standard Oil company in the USA and became the first billionaire

 of the world in the year 1916"

The highest reward for a man's toil is not what he gets out of it

 but what he becomes out of it.his hard work and the 

consequential transformation in his life is the true achievement,

 which goes a long way with him till his death?

Life shrinks and expands in proportion to one's courage.

 AND APPLICATION OF HIS MIND JUDICIOUSLY?


एक रोमांटिक जोड़ा पार्क में बैठा हुआ था की 

अचानक एक कुत्ता और उसकी फिऑन्स कुतिया भागते भागते आये

 और कुत्ता कुतिया आपस में एक दुसरे को चूमने चाटने लगे ,

लड़का :- जानू अगर तुम बुरा न मानो तो मैं भी 

लड़की : ओके पर प्लीज जरा संभल कर जाना , कुतिया तुम्हे काट न ले 

"Not everything that is faced can be changed, but nothing can

 be changed until it is faced."

The utility is when you have one telephone,
luxury is when you have two,
and paradise is when you have none.

You Are Born Without Anything But You Die With Your Name.

.So"That Name Must Not Be A Word only, It Must Be A History.

VIGYAAN KAHTA HAI.. "JEEBH Pe" Lagi Chot...Sabse Jaldi 

Theek hoti hai... Aur GYAAN KAHTA HAI ki.. 

JEEBH "Se" Lagi Chot Kabhi bhi Theek Nahi Hoti.

 So think 1000 times Before you React while Angry!!! 

Most Powerful weapon to Hurt someone is this small 

Boneless Tongue while the same tongue can win million

 Hearts & Make us the Most adorable, Loving Person!! 

Beware of its intensity either way so better use it cautiously!!!

One: I am the fourth husband of my wife.
Two: You are not a husband but a habit.


There are three secrets to success:
The first is "Keep your eyes and ears open."
The second is "Don't tell everything you know."

A blind boy who used TO hate everyone except his girlfriend.

.. he always uses to say that I will marry you...

.suddenly one day someone donated eyes to that boy...

when he saw his girlfriend he was shocked to see that

 she was also blind...his girlfriend asked.

. will you marry me now?.
he simply refused her rudely.

.his girlfriend did not say a word to him...

she smiled & went away with a letter saying.

.you are seeing through my eyes
take care of my eyes!!


Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions.

 Small people always do that, but the really great make

you feel that you,

too, can become great. Don't judge each day by the harvest you reap but by the seeds that you plant. -


Santa falls in love with a nurse… but feels shy about how to address her

? After much thinking, he finally
writes a love letter to her:
“I love you sister.”
Santa was caught for over speeding and was produced

 before the judge.
The judge: What’ll you take 30 days or Rs 3000.

 as punishment?
Santa: I think I’ll take the money.,I need it very much

Santa: Today I’m a proud father. My son has been admitted 

in medical college.
Banta: What’? he studying? medicine or surgery ”
Santa: He’s not studying, they are studying him!and

 will be operated soon


Santa appeared for an interview and was asked:-
What’s Ford?
Santa: Car.
and What’s Oxford?
Santa: So simple, Car driven by an Ox

Santa becomes electrician and
A lady calls Santa for repairing doorbell.
Santa doesn’t turn up for 4 days.
Lady calls again, Santa replies: I'm coming daily since 4 days,

 I press the bell but no one comes out


Teacher: What contents should be in a book to make it

 a bestseller?
Pappu: sir very hot selling idea!A girl on the cover and 

no cover on the girl.


Santa was appointed a police officer on special duty: and

 a lady came to lodge a complaint
Lady to inspector Santa: My husband went to buy potatoes 

5 days ago, he hasn't come back yet! I am desperately waiting for

 him!
Santa: Why ? why are you waiting for him so long?

Cant, you cook something else?

कौन है पानी में कितने, सब पता हो जाएगा
मुश्किलें आएँगी जब, ये फ़ैसला हो जाएगा
दूरियाँ दिल की अगरचे, बढ़ भी जाएँ हमनवा
तुम बढ़ाना इक कदम, तय फासला हो जायेगा

आहिस्ता चल ज़िन्दगी, अभी कई क़र्ज़ चुकाना बाकी है, 

कुछ दर्द मिटाना बाकी है, कुछ फ़र्ज़ निभाना बाकी है;
रफ्तार में तेरे चलने से कुछ रूठ गए, कुछ छुट गए ;
रूठों को मनाना बाकी है, रोतो को हसाना बाकी है ;

कुछ हसरतें अभी अधूरी है, कुछ काम भी और ज़रूरी है ;
ख्वाइशें जो घुट गयी इस दिल में, उनको दफनाना अभी बाकी है ;
कुछ रिश्ते बनके टूट गए, कुछ जुड़ते जुड़ते छूट गए;
उन टूटे-छूटे रिश्तों के ज़ख्मों को मिटाना बाकी है ;

तू आगे चल में आता हु, क्या छोड़ तुजे जी पाऊंगा ?
इन साँसों पर हक है जिनका,उनको समझाना बाकी है ;
आहिस्ता चल जिंदगी ,अभी कई क़र्ज़ चुकाना बाकी है ।

ये चन्द पंक्तियाँ जिसने भी लिखी है खूब लिखी है
ग़लतियों से जुदा
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" ग़लत फ़हमियों ने कर दी
दोनो मैं पैदा दूरियाँ,
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एक पथ्थर सिर्फ एक बार मंदिर
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जहाँ हम कहते हैं कि "हार" चाहिए।
क्योंकि हम भगवान से "जीत"
नहीं सकते।
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धीमें से पढ़े बहुत ही अर्थपूर्ण है यह
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दोनों एक जैसे हैं।
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ज़िन्दगी पल-पल ढलती है,
जैसे रेत मुट्ठी से फिसलती है...
शिकवे कितने भी हो हर पल,
फिर भी हँसते रहना...क्योंकि ये
ज़िन्दगी जैसी भी है,

बस एक ही बार मिलती है।

जरूर पढ़े...

एक आदमी जंगल से गुजर रहा था । उसे चार स्त्रियां मिली।

उसने पहली से पूछा - बहन तुम्हारा नाम क्या हैं ?
उसने कहा "बुद्धि "
तुम कहां रहती हो?
मनुष्य के दिमाग में।

दूसरी स्त्री से पूछा - बहन तुम्हारा नाम क्या हैं ?
" लज्जा "।
तुम कहां रहती हो ?
आंख में ।

तीसरी से पूछा - तुम्हारा क्या नाम हैं ?
"हिम्मत"
कहां रहती हो ?
दिल में ।

चौथी से पूछा - तुम्हारा नाम क्या हैं ?
"तंदुरूस्ती"
कहां रहती हो ?
पेट में।

वह आदमी अब थोडा आगे बढा तों फिर उसे चार पुरूष मिले।
उसने पहले पुरूष से पूछा - तुम्हारा नाम क्या हैं ?
" क्रोध "
कहां रहतें हो ?
दिमाग में,
दिमाग में तो बुद्धि रहती हैं,
तुम कैसे रहते हो?
जब मैं वहां रहता हुं तो बुद्धि वहां से विदा हो जाती हैं।

दूसरे पुरूष से पूछा - तुम्हारा नाम क्या हैं ?
उसने कहां -" लोभ"।
कहां रहते हो?
आंख में।
आंख में तो लज्जा रहती हैं तुम कैसे रहते हो।
जब मैं आता हूं तो लज्जा वहां से प्रस्थान कर जाती हैं ।

तीसरें से पूछा - तुम्हारा नाम क्या हैं ?
जबाब मिला "भय"।
कहां रहते हो?
दिल में।
दिल में तो हिम्मत रहती हैं तुम कैसे रहते हो?
जब मैं आता हूं तो हिम्मत वहां से नौ दो ग्यारह हो जाती हैं।

चौथे से पूछा तुम्हारा नाम क्या हैं?
उसने कहा - "रोग"।
कहां रहतें हो?
पेट में।
पेट में तो तंदरूस्ती रहती हैं?
🔰जब मैं आता हूं तो तंदरूस्ती वहां से रवाना हो जाती हैं।

🍁 
जीवन की हर विपरीत परिस्थिथि में यदि हम उपरोक्त वर्णित 

बातो को याद रखे तो कई चीजे टाली जा सकती है ।
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जरा मुस्कुरा के देख,
दुनिया हसती नजर आएगी!
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सुबह सैर कर के तो देख, 
तेरी सेहत ठीक हो जाएगी!
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व्यसन छोड के तो देख, 
तेरी इज्जत बन जाएगी! 
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खर्च घटा कर के तो देख,
तुझे अच्छी नीँद आएगी!
💰
मेहनत कर के तो देख, 
पैसे की तंगी चली जाएगी! 
🔮
संसार की अच्छाई तो देख, 
तेरी बुराई भाग जाएगी! 
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ईश्वर का ध्यान कर के तो देख,
तेरी उलझने दुर हो जाएगी! 
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माता पिता की बात मान कर तो
देख, 
तेरी जिन्दगी संवर जाएगी!

GOOD DEEDS OF SOME ONE SHOULD NEVER BE FORGOTTON --16102020

"LIFE BEGINS HERE AGAIN "

रेगिस्तान में दो मित्र अपने गावं को जा रहे थे , बहुत पुराने मित्र थे और दुःख सुख में हमेशा एक दुसरे का साथ देते थे। लेकिन पहाड़ तो तब आन  टूटा जब हर जगह कोरोना का जिक्र होने लगा की किसी से हाथ न मिलाये , कम से कम छे फुट का फासला रखे ताकि एक की बिमारी दुसरे को न लग जाए ?

 सफर में किसी मुकाम पर उनका किसी बात पर वाद-विवाद हो गया। बात इतनी बढ़ गई कि एक मित्र ने दूसरे मित्र को थप्पड़ मार दिया। थप्पड़ खाने वाले मित्र को इससे बहुत बुरा लगा लेकिन बिना

कुछ कहे उसने रेत में लिखा – “आज मेरे सबसे अच्छे मित्र ने मुझे थप्पड़ मारा”।

वे चलते रहे और एक नखलिस्तान में आ पहुंचे जहाँ उनहोंने नहाने का सोचा। जिस व्यक्ति ने थप्पड़ खाया था वह रेतीले दलदल में फंस गया और उसमें समाने लगा लेकिन उसके मित्र ने उसे बचा लिया। जब वह दलदल से सही-सलामत बाहर आ गया तब उसने एक पत्थर पर लिखा – “आज मेरे सबसे अच्छे मित्र ने मेरी जान बचाई”।

उसे थप्पड़ मारने और बाद में बचाने वाले मित्र ने उससे पूछा – “जब मैंने तुम्हें मारा तब तुमने रेत पर लिखा और जब मैंने तुम्हें बचाया तब तुमने पत्थर पर लिखा, ऐसा क्यों?”

उसके मित्र ने कहा – “जब हमें कोई दुःख दे तब हमें उसे रेत पर लिख देना चाहिए ताकि क्षमाभावना की हवाएं आकर उसे मिटा दें। लेकिन जब कोई हमारा कुछ भला करे तब हमें उसे पत्थर पर लिख देना चाहिए ताकि वह हमेशा के लिए लिखा रह जाए।”

जब वृक्ष से पत्ता टूट कर गिरे तो कसूर किसका ?
उस हवा का या उस वृक्ष का जिसने पत्ते को संभाला नहीं और टूट जाने दिया ?
या पत्ता ही उस पेड़ पे लगे लगे इतना थक चूका था की और पकडे रहना मुमकिन नहीं था ?
कसूर किसी का नहीं यह तो प्रकर्ति है जो पैदा होता है उसे जाना होता है , ताकि फिर से नया जीवन आ सके।

इंसान की जिंदगी में प्रीतिदिन कुछ न कुछ ऐसा ही होता रहता है और हम उसका दोष दूसरों पे डाल कर खुद को सही साबित करने में लगे रहते हैं। प्रीतिदिन इतनी गलत फहमियां उठती हैं क्या हम सब को अपने भीतर समा लें ?
जी नहीं , या तो इसे हल कर लो , या छोड़ दो , नहीं छोड़ सकते तो इनके साथ जीना ही सीख लो , यही जिंदगी  का प्राणायाम है अच्छी हवा को भीतर लो और गन्दी हवा को बाहर फेंक दो ,

चीनी और नमक दोनों को मिलाकर चीटियों के पास रखो , वह नमक को छोड़ सिर्फ चीनी ही उठाएंगी , तो फिर इंसान जब इंसान से व्यवहार करता है तो उसकी अच्छाइयों से अधिक उसकी बुराईआं ही क्यों याद रखता है ? हमारी समझ क्या इन चीटियों से भी गिरी हुई है ?

किसी से आत्मिक रिश्ता बनाने से पहले उस रिश्ते की बुनियाद को अच्छी तरह समझ लेना , और फिर इस आत्मिक रिश्ते को एक छोटी सी गलतफ़हमी में जल्दबाजी में तोड़ मत लेना , हो सकता है सारी गलती आपकी ही हो ?

हो के मायूस न यूं शाम से ढलते रहिये ,

ज़िन्दगी भोर है सूरज सा निकलते रहिये ,
एक ही पाँव पे ठहरोगे तो थक जाओगे ,
धीरे-धीरे ही सही पर ,राह पे चलते रहिये .

मुश्किलों से भाग जाना बहुत आसान होता है ,
हर पहलु ज़िन्दगी का इम्तिहान होता है ,
डरने वालो को मिलता नहीं कुछ ज़िन्दगी में ,
लड़ने वालो के कदमो में ही जहाँ होता है॥

कोई भी लक्ष्य बड़ा नहीं ं,
जीता वही जो डरा नहीं.....जो जीता वही ******

सिकंदर होता है ?*

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मकान जब" घर"बने तो "आलिशान "होना चाहिए 




जब मैं छोटा बच्चा था , गावं में पापा से बहुत कुछ सीखा करता था , वह कहते थे " बचपन से लेकर जवानी के ख्वाबों को बुढ़ापे तक एक सीमेंट ईंटो से चुनी दीवारों से घिरे भूमि के एक प्लाट को मकान कहते हैं और लोग इसमें कई पीढ़िया गुजार देते थे लेकिन कभी उदास नहीं होते थे , जो था उसी में संतुष्ट रहते थे। तुम हर बार बड़े शहर बड़े मकान की बात क्यों करते हो ?

लेकिन पिताजी को अहसास ही नहीं की आज की पीढ़ी इससे अलग सोचती है , की मकान जब घर बने तो महल सा होना चाहिए ,

हम सब की दिलों में कुछ कर गुजरने के अरमान ही तो होते है
हमारे आशियाँ घर बनने से पहले मकान ही तो होते है ,

वोह मकान जहाँ जीत का हर अहसास , '
दिल में ही दफन हो जाए
मकान जो शुरू होते ही बस खत्म हो जाए ,
मकान जहाँ तुम्हारा कोई सपना ,
सच होता हुआ नहीं लगता ,

चाहे जितना भी किराया दे दो ,वह अपना नहीं लगता ,
मकान वह जहाँ हर एक पल की जद्दोजेहद ,
और एक पल का भी सकूँ न हो सोने में।
मकान वह बला है जिसे देख हमें भी रोज लगे,
की अब तो एक अपना घर भी होना चाहिए


एक घर जो तुमेह कुछ कर दिखाने का जनून दे सके ,
घर जो फक्र से तुमेह अपना कहने का गुमान दे सके ,
घर ऐसा की जहाँ हर पल लगे की इस जैसा कहीं भी नहीं
घर जैसा मेरा है किसी और का नहीं
ऐसा तुम्हारे दिल को हमेशा हर पल लगना चाहिए

और मकान जब घर बने तो महल लगना चाहिए
घर वह होता है जिसमे तुम्हारे जश्न की महफ़िल
और तुम्हारे हिस्से की तन्हाई सिमट जाए।

यह घर हो सकून का इसमें हर इंतेज़ाम होना चाहिए ,
यह घर आपके ख्वाबो का अक्स होना चाहिए

आपके ख्वाबों की तरह इसे भी आलिशान होना चाहिए ,
खिड़कियां इसमें इतनी बड़ी की आस्मां के मंजर नजर आएं ,

ऐसा लगे की तारे घर में उत्तर आये हो ,
दीवारे इतनी मजबूत की दुनिया का हर घाव झेल सके ,

जगह इतनी की बच्चे जब भी जितना चाहें हर खेल वो खेल सकें ,
घर वह जहाँ रहने में हर पल ऐसा लगे तुम मेह्फूस हो आजाद हो ,


इसकी ख़ूबसूरती भी ऐसी हो की हर नजर इसकी मेहबूब हो ,
जहाँ नई हसरतों के साथ पुरानी यादें भी मेहफुस हों ,
जहाँ कुछ हिस्सों में आज ,तो कुछ में गुजरा हुआ पल लगे ,
मकान जब घर बने तो महल सा लगे

मकान जीत की शक्ल लेता है तब ,
तुम पूछोगे जरूर इस ख्वाबों की सल्तनत को,
हकीकत का लिबास कब पहनाओगे ,?
जिसकी हर कविता में जो बात करते हो ,

वह खास घर कभी बनाओगे भी क्या ?
मेरा जवाब है मेरा वक्त तो आने दो ,

जमाने बाद ही सही अपना दिल रखने आ जाना ,
मैं बुलावा भेजूंगा तुम्हे , मेरा घर देखने जरूर आना ,
क्योंकि तब मेरी जुबान पर,
तुम्हारी आँखों के हर सवाल का जवाब होगा ,

मेरा घर ख्वाब शायद न भी हो ख्वाब से बेहतर जरूर होगा ,
जिसकी दीवारे हर रंगों में बोलेंगी , तुम इसे पढ़ने सुनने की कोशिश तो करना।


मेरे पिताजी कहा करते थे , हर इंसान के अरमान होते है , छोटे शहरों से बड़े शहरों को पलायन करते लोग घर से बेघर होकर एक नए घर का सपना लिए घर से निकल पड़ते है , शुरआत भले ही इतनी बड़ी नहीं होती पर धीरे धीरे चीज़ें बड़ी होने लगती हैं , पर साथ ही यह भी समझाया था कीबड़े ख्वाबों के लिए जो चीज़ हाथ में हो उसे छोड़ जो चीज़ हवा में हो उसके पीछे मत भागना , दोनों से ही जाओगे। क्योंकि बड़े ख्वाबों की पूर्ती के लिए बड़े घर , बड़े शहर या बड़े देश की जरूरत नहीं होती। रखनी ही हों तो अपने घर की खिड़कियाँ बड़ी रख लेना बड़े घर का आभास होगा , बड़ी खिड़कियों को बड़े घर की जरूरत नहीं होती।

पर सबकी जिंदगी में कहाँ ऐसे मंजर होते है , हम शहर में रहने वालों के तो कई घर होते हैं ,
पहला घर वोह जिसकी दीवारों को हम कैनवास बना तरह तरह के चित्र बना डाले थे ,
आँगन था इसका इतना बड़ा , तोलिये में लिपटे माँ की कोख से बाहर आये तो यह घर पहले से बाप दादाओं के समय से मौजूद था।

आज भी इस घर ने हमारी किलकारिओं को , लकड़ी वाली काठी की सवारी , तीन पहियों पे दौड़ती साइकिल , पुराने कपड़ो से भरे संदूक और खिलोनो से भरी अलमारी को एक कोने में संजो के रखा होता है।

ममी पापा के पलंग की तकिये वाली दीवार पर उनके तेल वाले सर से उभरी कई तस्वीरें ऐसे लगते थे जैसे कोई मॉडर्न आर्ट की आयल पेंटिंग।

फिर एक और घर जहाँ दिवाली , होली या गर्मिओं की छुट्टिओं में हमारा बसेरा होता था ,
जी नहीं यह कोई होटल , हॉलिडे होम या गेस्ट हाउस नहीं , हमारी दादी नानी का घर होता था ,

जहाँ नानी के हाथों के बने स्वेटर पहन धमाचौकड़ी किया करते , और दादी के हाथों बना अचार लेकर वापिस लौट आते थे।

फिर जिंदगी को जो अगला पड़ाव मिला उसे घर कहें या कुछ और अपने आप में यह बड़ी उलझन है , यह घर होता है आपके किसी दोस्त या सहेली का ,यह घर आपकी नजर में परफेक्ट घर होता है , क्योंकि आपकी ख्वाइश भी ऐसे ही घर की होती है जैसे की आपके दोस्त का है , उस घर के हर समान को आप बड़े सपनो की दुनिया समझ कर पसंद करते हैं , उसका बड़ा सा लॉन , स्विमिंग पूल , २-३ फ्रिज , बड़ी बड़ी गाड़ियों के लिए गराज , यही आपका भी सपना बन जाता है।

फिर जिंदगी का एक और पड़ाव हमारी राह में आता है , हर खूबसूरत चेहरें को देख दिल के तार बजने लगते हैं , बन के मजनू घर के एक कोने वाले कमरे में रात रात दोस्तों संग रंगीन पार्टी , साथ में खनकते गिटार की तान , शायद कोई फ़िदा हो जाए आप पर ?,

कॉलेज की असाइनमेंट करने के बहाने सभी बेवड़े , पागल आवारा दोस्तों का जमावड़ा यहाँ होता है , यह हमारे उस कॉलेज वाले दोस्त का घर होता है , जो रोज किसी ना किसी वजह से दोस्तों को इकठा कर लेता है वोह निठल्लों का सरदार सिर्फ सब पर अपना रॉब जमाने के लिए , क्योंकि उसके पास कोई काम ही नहीं होता।

जिंदगी फिर बढ़ी कुछ कदम हमारी जवानी की देहलीज़ पर आके रुकी , अब यह महसूस होने लगता है की यह सब बेकार के काम हैं , अपने घर जैसी मौज कहीं नहीं , अपना घर ही स्वर्ग है , लेकिन जीवन में अगर सेट होना है तो कोई काम या नौकरी भी तो करनी पड़ेगी ,

यह बात समझ में आते ही हम निकल पड़ते है फिर एक नए घर की तलाश में , और मिलता है शेयरिंग वाला एक छोटा सा कमरा जो सिर्फ घर का छलावा मात्र होता है घर जैसा कुछ भी नहीं होता , इसमें मिलते है लोग अजीबो गरीब , कुछ दिल के करीब और कुछ मात्र दिखावटी ,, यह छडिस्तान की दुनिया बड़ी नीरस होती है , दीखता है तो केवल बालकनी पर सूखते उनके तोलिये और लाल पीले कछे।

जैसे ही आमदनी शुरू हुई और दाल रोटी की फ़िक्र से ऊपर उठते ही हम मौका देख इस गेस्ट हाउस से निकल लेते है , तब शुरू होता है घर बदलने का एक और सफर , एक मकान मिला किराय पर वोह भी सिर्फ 11 महीने की लीज पर , यानी की इस घर की दीवारों से प्यार होने से पहले इसे छोड़ना पड़ेगा।

अब जिस तरह ग्यारह महीने वाली जिंदगी साल दर साल , नया घर ही ढूँढ़ते रहना किसी का व्यपार पर हम पर इमोशनलअत्याचार , जिस तरह जिंदगी और उम्र चलती चले जा रही है , कहीं किसी मोड़ पर तो रुकना भी है जरूरी , जब आप इस बात को किसी तरह मान लेते है , तब आप ले लेते हैं बीस साल वाली किश्तों वाला एक अपना मकान , EMI के लिए ओवरटाइम भी करना पड़ता है।

जब रात को मकान की दीवारें खाने को पड़े तब तन्हाई के साथी की तलाश शुरू हो जाती है , तभी आती है इक लड़की जो इस चारदीवारी को अपना शहर बना लेती है , जब चलती है उसके पैजब और हाथों की खनकती चूड़ियाँ इस वीराने से मकान को घर बना देती है।

बढ़ती उम्र थोड़ा बांकपन थोड़ी परिपक्वता भी अब हमारा हाथ थामने लगती है , फिर उसी की देहलीज़ पर तोलिये में लिपटा एक नन्हा मुना बच्चा आपकी गोद में आपका बचपन लौटा लाता है ,तब आपको उसमे अपनी ही कहानी का अक्स नजर आने लगता है , जैसे की वक्त की चाल खुद ब खुद आपकी ही कहानी दोहराने लगी हो , वही खिलोने , वही स्कूल , फिर घर वही जिंदगी में कुछ करने की होड़ जिसमे अब हम नहीं हमारा बेटा दौड़ने लगा है.

इतनी तेज गति से चली हमारी जिंदगी को थोड़ा विराम भी तो चाहिए , हमारा वक्त रुकता हुआ नजर आता है इस घर की देहलीज़ को सफ़ेद लिबास में लिपटे चार लोगो के साथ पार कर जाते हैं , घर तो वहीँ रहता है , आप की दिवार पर लटकी एक तस्वीर इस घर के लिए अपने जजबात संजोये दिखती है , जिस घर को खुद के पुरषार्थ से बनाना फिर उसमे एक साथी के साथ नया जीवन पिरोना और फिर सब छोड़ कर चल देना ,

खुशनसीब है वह लोग जो पूरा जीवन एक चार दीवारी में गुजर लेते हैं , सफ़ेद तोलिये से सफ़ेद चादर तक का सफर एक ही घर से कर लेते हैं , घर चाहे रिश्तों का हो या शादी के बाद किश्तों का , घर चाहे दोस्तों का हो या नाना नानी और दादा दादी की यादों का , अपना घर तो अपना ही होता है जो दिल को ख़ुशी और बेइन्ताह सकून चेहरे पे देता है , रात को चैन की नींद और जीने का मकसद देता है ,

घर जैसा मंजर हर किसी का ख्वाब होना चाहिए , मैं तो कहता हूँ हर किसी को अपने घर से प्यार होना जरूरी है , जी चाहता हूँ अपने घर की हर दिवार पर हर जगह अपना नाम लिख दूँ , इस घर के लिए गजलें , गीत , शायरी किस्से तमाम लिख दूँ , सच ही तो कहा है किसी ने दुनिया की पूरी सियासत ही क्यों न मिल जाए , घर जैसी कोई जगह नहीं होती , ईस्ट और वेस्ट होम इज़ द बेस्ट

ज़िन्दगी है छोटी, हर पल में खुश रहो ...
ऑफिस में खुश रहो, घर में खुश रहो ...
आज पनीर नहीं है ,दाल में ही खुश रहो ...

आज जिम जाने का समय नहीं ,बचा ?
तो क्या ?दो कदम चल के ही खुश रहो ...

आज दोस्तों का साथ नहीं मिला तो क्या ?
घर में , बीवी के साथ टीवी देख के ही खुश रहो ...

घर जा नहीं सकते बीवी बच्चों से मिलने !
तो फ़ोनपे विडिओ चेट कर के ही खुश रहो ...

आज कोई नाराज़ है आपसे ?उसकी बला से ,
उसके इस नज़रअंदाज की अदा में भी खुश रहो ...

जिसे देख नहीं सकते तुम कोशिश कर के भी ?
सुन के कान से ,उसकी आवाज़ में ही खुश रहो ...

जिसे पा नहीं सकते पूरी कोशिश के बावजूद भी तुम ,
क्यों न संजो के दिल में उसकी ,याद में ही खुश रहो?

लैपटॉप गर खरीद न सके तुम तो क्या ,
अपने दादा के पुराने , डेस्कटॉप में ही खुश रहो ...

बीता हुआ कल तो जा चूका है तुम्हारे हाथों से कब का ? ,
क्यों न कर के उसको याद ,उसकी मीठी यादों में ही खुश रहो ...

आने वाले पल का किसी को पता नहीं .है .. मेरे दोस्त ,
आने वाले लम्हों की ख़ुशी ,उसके सपनो में ही खुश रहो ....

ALONE IN THE END "EMOTIONAL DEPARTURE "

"LIFE BEGINS HERE AGAIN "

PROFOUND THOUGHTS ( B)

The Japanese have always loved fresh fish
But the water close to Japan, because of overexploitation has not held much fish for decades now.
So to feed the Japanese population, fishing boats got bigger and went farther & farther than ever.
The further the fishermen went, the longer it took them to bring the fish back to their lands
If the return trip took more time, the fish were not fresh.
To solve this problem, fish companies installed freezers on their boats.
They would catch the fish and freeze them at sea.
Freezers allowed the boats to go farther and stay longer.
However, the Japanese could taste the difference between fresh and frozen fish and they did not like the taste of frozen fish
The frozen fish brought a lower price.
So, fishing companies installed fish tanks.

They would catch the fish and stuff them in the tanks, fin to fin.which gave fish no space to play
After a little thrashing around, they were tired, dull, and lost their fresh-fish taste.The fishing industry faced an impending crisis!



NECESSITY IS THE MOTHER OF ALL INNOVATIONS:-
But today, they get fresh-tasting fish to Japan.
How did they manage...?
To keep the fish tasting fresh, the Japanese fishing companies still put the fish in the tanks but with a small shark amongst them 🐋🐋
The fish are scared and challenged and hence are constantly on the move.
The challenge they face in their lives keeps them alive and fresh!
Have you realized that some of us are also living similarly in a pond but most of the time feel tired and dull....? in the absence of a challenge?

Basically, in our lives, sharks in this story depicted🐋🐋 are new challenges which can keep us active.
If you are steadily conquering
challenges, you are happy.
Your challenges keep you energized.
Don’t create Success and revel in it in a state of inertia.
You have the resources, skills and abilities to make a difference.
Put a shark 🐋🐋 in your "mind "tank and see how far you can go.*

Relationships--of all kinds--are like sand
held in your hand. Held loosely,
with an open hand, the sand remains
where it is. The minute you close,
your hand and squeeze tightly to hold
on, the sand trickles through your fingers.
You may hold onto it, but
most will be spilt. A relationship is like that.
Held loosely, with respect and freedom for,
the other person, it is likely to remain intact.
But hold too tightly, too possessively,

and the relationship
slips away and is lost.!!


When difficult situations and conditions confront you, the chief aim "must" be to remain calm. If you can remain calm, amidst the storms of problems, worries, fears and daily test to your fortitude, you "will overcome," or "come up over" any condition. Conditions are merely problems that require solving. And, problems are successes that ave not been solved. ...

Critics will criticize. Haters will hate.
Just stay true to yourself and be,
strong enough to do what you want..
If you can stand unshaken when
others attack you, (in any way) and
"not" retaliate, but remain calm,
"you will be a master of self."
This is not easy, but it can be accomplished with an
"indomitable will" to succeed.
This is not an injunction to be a
"doormat!" Quite the opposite!
You will realize a power
that you've never dreamt of within.


Habits are "automatic mental machines." Habits will embarrass you if they are bad, and will come to your aid when they are good. Habits are like the "parrot" that are trained to say "disgusting things." When you are in the presence of those you honour and respect, "they will blurt out the vilest things!" How embarrassing is that? That is exactly what "good or bad" habits do, they show up unexpectedly, and when you are off guard...... Practice good habits and be vigilant in the fight to route the bad ones and to strengthen the good ones........ Remember that, "habits are automatic mental machines."..


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A good heart and a good nature are two different issues, A good heart can win many relationships, But a good nature can win many good hearts.

The world's happiest friends and happily married couples may never have the same nature..but of course, they just have the best "UNDERSTANDING" of their "DIFFERENCES"

The real art of conversation is not only to say the right thing in the right place but to leave unsaid the wrong thing at the tempting moment. Lady Dorothy Nevill



One rainy day, it is raining heavily with high thunderous sparks in the sky
Mother went to pick up her 6-year-old son from school thinking that he will fear the lightning...
On the way she found him smiling at the sky for every lightning. sparks She asked.. strangely,


Why are you smiling???


BOY- Mom you never told me that someone during rains takes our pictures from the sky "GOD is taking my picture & I need to look good.. by posing smilingly "
.
.
LIFE IS SIMPLE.
WE COMPLICATE IT.
Our SOUL or THE consciousness like Water has no shape, its nature is to flow freely. If you put it into a vase it will take the shape of the vase. In this cup, it has assumed the shape of the cup. If poured into my cupped hands it will take the shape of the hands. But water has no shape. It is the same with the consciousness, which is subtler than water. It similarly has no form, but it assumes the form of whatever concept it is poured into or identifies with, but it will never be the form. It remains ever its formless nature.!!



IN stead of carrying the burden of
EGOISM AND Hollow attitude?
On your mind.
DEVELOP an Attitude of Gratitude.
and Give Thanks for Everything.
that happens to you,.....Knowing.
that Every Step Forward is a,
A step towards achieving.
SOMETHING BIGGER & BETTER..!!!



When difficult situations and conditions confront you, the chief aim "must" be to remain calm. If you can remain calm, amidst the storms of problems, worries, fears and daily test to your fortitude, you "will overcome," or "come up over" any condition. Conditions are merely problems that require solving. And, problems are successes that ave not been solved. ...


वो लिखते है हमारा नाम मिट्टी मैं
और मिटा भी देते है '''''''''''''',
उन के लिए ये खेल होगा मगर
हमे तो वो मिट्टी मैं मिला देते है


Mana Ki Meri Katil Bhi Wahi Thi,
Saare Shaher M Tarif Ke Kabil Bhi Wahi Thi,
Kahti Thi Teri HU Teri Rahungi,
Lagi Jo DushmaNo Ki Mehfil Toh SaBse Aage Bhi Wahi Thi


Ability or Inability, both are secondary factors, and both do not matter much in a true relationship. .. First of all, what really matters is? Availability? without availability there are no roles defined for Abilities & Inabilities, Hence first take care of this factor in your life then move ahead.


READ THIS!!!! And then reread it. Especially in the last part...

I walked into the grocery store not particularly interested in buying groceries. I wasn't hungry.. The pain of losing my husband of 57 years was still too raw. And this grocery store held so many sweet memories..

He often came with me and almost every time he'd pretend to go off and look for something special. I knew what he was up to. I'd always spot him walking down the aisle with the three yellow roses in his hands.

He knew I loved yellow roses. With a heart filled with grief, I only wanted to buy my few items and leave, but even grocery shopping was different since he had passed on.

Shopping for one took time, a little more thought than it had for two.

Standing by the meat, I searched for the perfect small steak and remembered how he had loved his steak.

Suddenly a woman came beside me. She was blonde, slim and lovely in a soft green pantsuit. I watched as she picked up a large package of T-bones, dropped them in her basket... Hesitated, and then put them back. She turned to go and once again reached for the pack of steaks.

She saw me watching her and she smiled. 'My husband loves T-bones, but honestly, at these prices, I don't know.'

I swallowed the emotion down my throat and met her pale blue eyes.

'My husband passed away eight days ago,' I told her. Glancing at the package in her hands, I fought to control the tremble in my voice. 'Buy him the steaks. And cherish every moment you have together.'

She shook her head and I saw the emotion in her eyes as she placed the package in her basket and wheeled away

I turned and pushed my cart across the length of the store to the dairy products. There I stood, trying to decide which size milk I should buy. A Quart, I finally decided and moved on to the ice cream. If nothing else, I could always fix myself an ice cream cone.

I placed the ice cream in my cart and looked down the aisle toward the front. I saw first the green suit, then recognized the pretty lady coming towards me. In her arms, she carried a package. On her face was the brightest smile I had ever seen! I would swear a soft halo encircled her blonde hair as she kept walking toward me, her eyes holding mine.

As she came closer, I saw what she held and tears began misting in my eyes.. 'These are for you,' she said and placed three beautiful long-stemmed yellow roses in my arms. 'When you go through the line, they will know these are paid for.' She leaned over and placed a gentle kiss on my cheek, then smiled again. I wanted to tell her what she'd done, what the roses meant, but still unable to speak, I watched as she walked away as tears clouded my vision

I looked down at the beautiful roses nestled in the green tissue wrapping and found it almost unreal. How did she know? Suddenly the answer seemed so clear. I wasn't alone.

Oh, you haven't forgotten me, have you? I whispered, with tears in my eyes.. He was still with me, and she was his angel.

Every day is thankful for what you have and who you are.

(Please read all of this, it is really nice)

This is a simple request. If you appreciate life, send this to your friends, including the person that sent it to you.

Even though I clutch my blanket and growl when the alarm rings. Thank you, Lord, that I can hear. There are many who are deaf.

Even though I keep my eyes closed against the morning light as long as possible. Thank you, Lord, that I can see. Many are blind.

Even though I huddle in my bed and put off rising. Thank you, Lord, that I have the strength to rise. There are many who are bedridden.

Even though the first hour of my day is hectic, when socks are lost, toast is burned, tempers are short, and my children are so loud.

Thank you, Lord, for my family.. There are many who are lonely.

Even though our breakfast table never looks like the picture in magazines and the menu is at times unbalanced..

Thank you, Lord, for the food we have. There are many who are hungry.

Even though the routine of my job often is monotonous. Thank you, Lord, for the opportunity to work. There are many who have no job.

Even though I grumble and bemoan my fate from day to day and wish my circumstances were not so modest.

Thank you, Lord, for life.

Pass this on to the friends you know. It might help a bit to make this world a better place to live, right? A friend is someone we turn to when our spirits need a lift. A friend is someone to treasure.

For friendship is a gift. A friend is someone who fills our lives with Beauty, Joy and Grace and makes the world we live in a better and happier place!

YOU ARE MY FRIEND!

God bless you and yours.

Now send this to every friend you have and don't forget me.
It's sad how quickly people can forget

about you, until they want

.something from you.

27-01-2019 PROFOUND THOUGHTS (A)

"LIFE BEGINS HERE AGAIN



"A Profound Thought:
"Many Communication Problems between us arise because,
We have our own firm convictions & do not want to acknowledge what others have to say, Don't Listen Them to Understand their viewpoint. But We rather Listen to them critically and analytically only to fire a reply? at the first go ?

Most people struggle financially because they take advice from,
"salespeople, AND not rich people."

"If you carry old bricks from your past relationship
to your new one, you will build the same house
that fell apart before." for the same reasons?

“Happiness is like a butterfly which, when pursued
is always beyond our grasp,
but, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you.”

समंदर से कहे दो अपनी मौजो को संभाल कर रखे,
लोग ही काफी हे जिंदगी में तूफान लाने के लिए..
जिसे ऊपर उठना है वह सहारा ढूंढ ही लेता है
जिसे नीचे गिरना है वह बहाना ढूंढ ही लेता है

Nobody's born the same,
Nobody can stop the rain,
I can not change the way I am,
I never really tried,
God made me different and unique and
I never asked him why.
Threw out my differences and strife.
My main goal is to be strong in life.
I am different, I am strong,
I am wise and With confidence,
I will look fear in the eyes...of my detractors

I have reached a point in life where
I feel it is no longer necessary to try and impress anyone
If they like the way ,
I am, good, if they don't, it's their loss.
—
Never apologize for being sensitive or emotional.
Let this be a sign that you've got a big heart
and aren't afraid to let others see it.
Showing your emotions is a sign of strength.

‎

"Anyone who isn't confused,
doesn't really understand the situation."

God sometimes removes ,
a person from your life ,
for your protection.
Don't run after them.

Throughout your life, you will meet one person who is unlike any other. You could talk to this person for hours and never get bored.
You could tell them things and they won't judge you.
This person is your soul mate and your best friend.
Don't ever let them go.

Relationships are harder now because conversations became texting,
arguments became phone calls,
feelings became subliminal messages,
sex became easy, the word "love"
is used out of context,
insecurities became a way of thinking,
getting jealous became a habit,
trust is hard to come by,
being hurt became natural &
leaving became the only option.
Sad but true, so if you have something ,
that's worth it..don't take it for granted,
fight for it & don't let it go.
~Lessons Learned In Life

Our fingerprints don't fade from the lives we've touched.
A soul connection is a resonance between ,
two people who respond to the essential,
the beauty of each other's individual natures,
behind their facades, and who connect on this deeper level.

This kind of mutual recognition ,
provides the catalyst for a potent alchemy.
It is a sacred alliance whose purpose,
is to help both partners discover and realize ,
their deepest potentials. 

While a heart connection lets us appreciate,
those we love just as they are,
a soul connection opens up a further dimension

-- seeing and loving them for who they could be,
and for who we could become under their influence.
This means recognizing that we both ,
have an important part to play , in helping each other,
become more fully who we are....
A soul connection not only inspires us ,
to expand, but also forces us to confront
whatever stands in the way of that expansion.
- marriages are also made the similar way ,
no patri or kundli can ever, match this individual capacity ,
to read and judge each other ??

Do you care enough to climb ?
over the walls that others ,
"build around their heart?

Some say It's Painful to...
Wait for Someone...
Some say It's Painful to ...
Forget Someone....
But..........
The Worst Pain Comes .
When you don't know,
Whether to Wait or Forget.. !


I thank all the people who entered my life..
.for all these 71 years.
for IT IS you who made me who I am today.

I thank all those who loved me..to the extreme..
for you made my heart grow bigger.
to give me a heart attack

I thank all those who hated me...
for all my good deeds.
for you made me a stronger person.

I thank all those who cared for me..
.in my adversity .
for you made me feel important.

I thank all those who envied me....
and vowed to ditch me down .
for you helped my self-esteem grow.

I thank all those who left..me
in the middle of the journey of my life,
.. for you showed me ......
that not everything is forever.

I thank all those also who stayed..
A little longer ...
for you showed me what true
friends are!!

Believe that God is in All of us.
We are All a Part of God.
Look not to the deities in the Sky,
but in Yourself for Help.
For only then will You receive,
God's True Aid. Look in ,
Your children's Eyes and
Remember that all is not Lost.
Remember to be Like a Child,
when Everything else is Just,
too Much. Play, Dance, and,
Laugh with Children and ,
You will feel God's arms Around You.!


CLEANSE YOURSELF with,
Laughter & with Tears.
Let Tears take out all the Agony,
that is hidden in side you , and
let Laughter Ignite your Contagious JOY !!!


MATURITY is the ability to REAP,
without apology & not complain,
when things don't go well !!!


You Don't Love someone for their Looks,
their clothes or their fancy car....
YOU LOVE THEM BECAUSE ,
THEY CAN SING A SONG ONLY ..which
YOUR HEART CAN UNDERSTAND !!!

Trust yourself and believe that,
you can create whatever you want...
instead of focusing on the times.
when you failed in the past...
think of the times you were loved,
appreciated and respected.
Know that you deserve love and joy.!!


Love your parents and treat them ,
with loving care...For you will only know,
their value, when you see their empty chair.!!!!!!!!


Eyes are the windows to your Soul.
When the heart is full the eyes overflow….
Fill them up with Love & Light !!

Everynight, we go to bed without any,
assurance of being alive the next morning,
but still... we set the alarm to wake up.
That's called HOPE. !!Against HOPES ?

BEGIN TO SEE 'YOURSELF' AS A SOUL WITH A BODY....RATHER THAN A BODY WITH A SOUL..!!
And then see the difference in your own attitudes and feelings


When you have to make a hard decision, Flip a coin.
Why? Because when that coin is in the air,
you suddenly know what you’re,
hoping for in your mind ?:)


“The love wich you go in search of
may expect a lot of things from you”
But, ”The love that comes your way,
expects nothing more than You:-)


THINK ALL YOU SPEAK..., but,
NEVER SPEAK ,
ALL THAT YOU THINK.....!!


I was smiling yesterday,
I am smiling today and
I will smile tomorrow .
Simply because life is too
short to cry for anything. !!

Learn to get in touch with the silence
within yourself, and know that everything
in life has a purpose. There are no mistakes,
no coincidences, all events are blessings
, given to us to learn from.!!

Heart Melting Story: Which only A mother can write ?
A Woman was Admitted in Hospital
as She was Suffering from Brain Tumor..:(

Her Son & Relatives were Around Her,
... She Died within a few Hours..:'(

Her Son Cried the whole Day & Became Ill.
He Returnd Home the Next Day;
& When He Opened His Moms Cupboard, to seek some solace !
He found some Tablets kept (wrapped) in a Letter,!!
In the Letter it was Written:
" TAKE THESE TABLETS DEAR;
I know YOU Catch Cold Easily after Crying..[:'( :(

-"MOTHERS LOVE to MAKE IT LIVE LONG..♥"!!

MEDICAL KNOWLEDGE OF HERBS

"LIFE BEGINS HERE AGAIN 

Parsley – 

One of Nature’s Most Potent Vitamin Pills/Sprigs

Everyone needs a couple of parsley plants growing in pots or their garden. Eating a sprig of parsley a day fresh from the pot will contribute to abundant health of your whole body while vamping up energy and bounce to your day.

Parsley’s high iron content is fantastic for anaemia and fatigue as it is also high in Vitamin C which is needed by the body to assist in the absorption of iron. The high vitamin C content, beta carotene, B12, chlorophyll and essential fatty acid content makes parsley a powerful immune booster. 

It is an excellent addition for heart health as it dissolves cholesterol within the veins, is a blood purifier and rejuvenates and strengthens blood vessels while maintaining the elasticity of blood vessels. Parsley also helps improve digestion. Diuretic parsley can assist in the treatment of oedema. Parsley can be used for gout, dissolving gallstones and glandular support of the liver, spleen, kidneys and adrenal glands.

For Hormonal support in women, parsley can improve oestrogen and nourish and restore the blood of the uterus. Women may also find relief of symptoms such as irritability, depression and hair loss which are associated with PMS and menopause. Parsley may also assist in regulating the menstrual cycle.

Parsley is a powerful remedy for the kidney and rejuvenates the liver. Except in severe kidney inflammation, parsley can help eliminate wastes from the blood and tissues. It has also been beneficial in strengthening the spleen (particularly parsley root), assist with stomach problems and strengthen loose teeth.

Parsley is also a good source of protein, magnesium, boron, vitamin K, folic acid, calcium, phosphorus, manganese, inositol, vitamin B12, and sulphur.

Honey for Heart Health,

Calm, and Cleansing For thousands of years, honey was used as an antibacterial. That was until the onset of new bacterial drugs appearing on the market took over. However, we are thankfully relearning of kinds of honey powerful properties for good health.

Bastyr Centre for Natural Health website mentions a study published in the Journal of Medicinal Food (2004;1:100-7) where it was found that eating honey can lower the risk of heart disease. This article also mentions that some studies have suggested that eating honey can reduce blood levels of some markers that are linked to an increased risk of heart disease.
Honey is an antibacterial with enzymes, amino acids, pigments, pollen, wax, and traces of nutrients from both bees and plants.

Other benefits of honey:
• Has a calming effect on the mind
• Promotes sleep
• Helps indigestion
• Helps to disinfect and heal minor skin wounds and chapped lips
• Appears to lower C-reactive protein
• Assists in the rapid healing of burns
• May have less impact on blood glucose, insulin, and lipid levels compared to glucose
• Is increasingly showing promise as an aid in rapidly clearing infection, swelling and pain and inflammation

Replace your sugar with raw organic honey. Why keep using a substance which has consistently shown to be detrimental to health when you can switch to a much more healthy alternative and further improves your health.
Coconut water!
Health Benefits of Coconut Water - Coconut Water Benefits
Drinking coconut water has many benefits. Coconut Water is naturally:
Low in Carbs
99% Fat-Free
Low in sugars

Coconut water contains organic compounds possessing healthy growth promoting properties that have been known to help

Keep the body cool and at the proper temperature.
Orally re-hydrate your body, it is an all-natural isotonic beverage.
Carry nutrients and oxygen to cells.
Naturally, replenish your body's fluids after exercising.
Raise your metabolism.
Promote weight loss.
Boost your immune system.
Detoxify and fight viruses.
Cleanse your digestive tract.
Control of diabetes.
Aid your body in fighting viruses that cause the flu, herpes, and AIDS.
Balance your PH and reduce the risk of cancer.
Treat kidney and urethral stones.
Boost poor circulation.

Honey...As all-round Amazing medicine  
Awesome Natural Remedies with Honey
Flu, Colds & Cough Medicine – Honey and lemon juice sipped several times a day.
Cuts & Burns – Apply Honey.

Hangover – Weak solution of black tea mixed with honey 2-3 times a day or eat honey on toast.

Energy Drink & Afternoon Fatigue – 2-3 teaspoons of honey in a glass of water sprinkled with cinnamon powder. Or, mix 1 tablespoon of honey with 1 tablespoon of Apple Cider Vinegar to 1 glass of water. Drink daily for one week for a real boost!
Pain Relief – 3 tablespoons of honey in hot or boiled water and drink.

Anxiety, Insomnia and Nervous Tension - 1 tablespoon of honey at dinner. Or, mix and store 3 tablespoons of Apple Cider Vinegar to 1 cup of honey. Take 2 teaspoons of this mixture before bed.

Impotence – Take 2 tablespoons of honey before bed.
Burns – Apply to burn, cover with a soft bandage.
Asthma – 1 teaspoon of honey with ½ teaspoon cinnamon just before going to bed.

Allergies, Headaches & Stuffy Nose – chew on honeycomb.
Constipation – 2 teaspoons of honey 3 times a day
Nappy Rash, Eczema and Itchy Skin – Apply a thin layer of honey are washing the area with oatmeal (1 tablespoon of oatmeal with 1 cup of water).
Bee Stings – Apply honey!

WARNING! Never give honey to an infant under 12 months.

Turmeric. 

Turmeric – Cleanse the Body, aid Weight Loss, enhance Health Heath and Digestion and much more!

Turmeric is revered in Ayurvedic medicine due to its many healing properties. This potent spice helps cleanse the liver, purify the blood and promote good digestion and elimination. 

The principal component of turmeric is curcumin that has anti-inflammatory qualities and is an antioxidant booster to combat viral infections, cancer and arthritis. Turmeric is also said to help boost appetite, improve cell health, lower blood pressure, help prevent stomach irritations, improve bile secretion and reduce pain.

Under the Ayurvedic system of healing, turmeric has been prescribed to treat a variety of ailments, including digestive issues, menstrual problems, arthritis, infections, jaundice, coughs and rheumatic pains. It is also used to cleanse the body. In Traditional Chinese medicine, turmeric is used to deal with liver and gallbladder issues.

When the liver is working at optimum levels, it filters as much as 2 litres of blood per minute but the liver works best when bile production is increased. This is where Turmeric is highly beneficial as it stimulates the production of bile which enhances the liver's ability to cleanse and detoxify.

Turmeric is an excellent heart health herb that aids in the prevention and/or healing of inflammation. Turmeric has the ability to clean the blood which is essential to heart health and can help to rejuvenate tissues. It is also an excellent aid in supporting the liver.

Curcumin, an active component of Turmeric has reportedly been found to aid in the prevention of blood clots and also protect against blood cholesterol rise from eating fatty foods. Always check this with your doctor first for permission to include with any health issues.
Can be added to smoothies, salads and cooking.

Walnuts and the brain...

WALNUT BRAIN

THE gnarled folds of a walnut mimic the appearance of a human brain - and provide a clue to the benefits. Walnuts are the only nuts which contain significant amounts of omega-3 fatty acids. They may also help head off dementia. An American study found that walnut extract broke down the protein-based plaques associated with Alzheimer's disease. 

Researchers at Tufts University in Boston found walnuts reversed some signs of brain ageing in rats. Dr James Joseph, who headed the study, said walnuts also appear to enhance signalling within the brain and encourage new messaging links between brain cells.

A new disease among younger females found working in big companies. I am sure by 2025, 25 lacs for women, will be the rate of losing life every year due to smoking alone.

Tomatoes for health...
Tomatoes for Prostate and Heart Heath
When a tomato is cut in half, it has four chambers which also resembles the four chambers of the heart. It looks like the heart and we associate the colour red to the colour of the heart.

 It is now known that tomatoes contain a powerful antioxidant called lycopene (which is the Latin for red foods) and supports the heart and blood vessels while lowering cholesterol – but it is the synergy of the other hundreds of nutritional components which adds to the tomatoes potency that works with lycopene thus increases its effectiveness.

Population studies suggest that men who consume higher quantities of tomatoes than the average person have up to 40 per cent less chance of developing prostate cancer.
Tomatoes (and other good quality tomato products) are an excellent source of potassium, niacin, vitamin B6 and folate. Vitamin B6 and folate are both needed by the body to convert the potentially dangerous chemical called homocysteine (which may damage blood vessel walls and increase the risk of heart attack and stroke) into other, benign molecules.


Richer Life Today's Tip

It's time to make exercise an important lifestyle change. Exercise helps control weight; when you exercise you burn calories. If time is limited, take the stairs, park further, and add a few steps every chance you get. 

Do simple exercises in your bedroom, in the morning, or at night before you go to sleep. Perform sit-ups, pushups, crunches, bicycle kicks, and leg raises--anything to get you moving and get your heart rate up for more than 15 minutes. 

Regular physical activity can help prevent and manage a wide variety of health issues. It can reduce your chance of developing hypertension and Type II diabetes, and it can help fight certain types of cancer, depression, stroke, and heart disease.

:: TOP 10 BIGGEST BRAIN DAMAGING HABITS 

According to the world health organization::

1. No Breakfast - 

People who do not take breakfast are going to have a lower blood sugar level. This leads to an insufficient supply of nutrients to the brain causing brain degeneration !!

2. Overeating -

 It causes hardening of the brain arteries, leading to a decrease in mental power !!

3. Smoking - 

It causes multiple brain shrinkage and may lead to Alzheimer disease !!

4. High Sugar consumption - 

Too much sugar will interrupt the absorption of proteins and nutrients causing malnutrition and may interfere with brain development !!

5. Air Pollution - 

The brain is the largest oxygen consumer in our body. Inhaling polluted air decreases the supply of oxygen to the brain, bringing about a decrease in brain efficiency !!

6. Sleep Deprivation -

 Sleep allows our brain to rest. Long term deprivation from sleep will accelerate the death of brain cells !!

7. Head covered while sleeping -

 Sleeping with the head covered increases the concentration of carbon dioxide and decrease the concentration of oxygen that may lead to brain-damaging effects !!

8. Working your brain during illness -

 Working hard or studying with sickness may lead to a decrease in the effectiveness of the brain !!

9. Lacking in stimulating thoughts -

 Thinking is the best way to train our brain, lacking in brain stimulation thoughts may cause brain shrinkage !!

10. Talking Rarely - 

Intellectual conversations will promote the efficiency of the brain !!
YOU THE SOURCE OF ALL PROBLEMS

The imagined sense of being a separate ‘I’ is the source of all problems.
Because the ‘I’ as thought is really very intangible, all types of other ideas get wrapped around it,
in order to give it some semblance of solidity.
All the self-definitions, identities and apparent conditioning hinge on the unexamined sense of ‘I’.

Almonds are also good at cakes.
Almonds – Magic for Beautealth
Other benefits include help in improving anaemia, impotency, and diabetes. It is also a great aid in ensuring healthy hair. Both almond oil and milk massaged into the skin can encourage healthy-looking skin and tone.
Almonds many nutrients are essential for Healthy Brains and is said to help induce a high intellectual level. Growing children may have a head start in brain development if given this essential food item.
Several studies have reported Almonds to have potent heart-healthy properties. Only ¼ cup of almonds contains nearly 25 per cent of your needed daily intake of magnesium. This is important when it comes to heart disease as it has been found that heart attack patients have consistently low levels of this vital mineral. Almonds are one of the best nuts for lowering cholesterol and clearing arteries. They have a high fibre content which may help with constipation and also be responsible for assisting in the prevention of colon cancer.

Almonds are also rich potassium, manganese, copper, the antioxidants vitamin E and selenium, and calcium. In fact, a quarter cup of almonds has almost as much calcium as a quarter cup of milk.
by: y, Healthy Heart and Brain H