where is my happiness
?
खुशिओं का घरोंदा कहाँ है
On Teacher's Day:
No matter how much you learn from other teachers in school or college life, our training starts at home in the lap of our mother. Amongst the first teachers in the world, are at home. Moms teach basics at home and Dads teach, how to deal with the world outside. ..my dad carried me on his shoulders to show me around and kept me tied with his chest when I felt insecure, My Dad taught me how to be generous while being strong with a message that no one can afford to be indecent with you if you are strong, how to always be nice to the neighbourhood as a tough time they are the first aid when you are in trouble? how to take first steps to rally people around for a good cause; being socially active without being politically ambitious, how some of the available time and money needs to be spent on society, how to keep emotions in control; not to dance when happy and not to weep when sad ... At the outside world, every friend and adversary I met, taught me something. Thanks all. You all will remain my teacher, forever. TO TOP IT ALL I CAN NOT FORGET THE SEEDLINGS WHICH MY TEACHERS GAVE IN SCHOOL WHICH HAS MADE ME WHAT I AM TODAY? HATS OFF TO MY TEACHERS AND GUIDES.
ARE YOU HAPPY ??
We ARE all searching for happiness. it does not come with our wishes
In achieving this happiness our attitude in life plays a crucial role. one instance goes like this:----
After years of hard dedicated service to his Company, Ajay was being appointed at an elegant reception as the new Director.
It was a small function where his wife Anita, a Home Executive & some of the wives of the other persons in top management were also present.
In an adjacent room, Ann, the wife of the CEO of the Company, asked Ajay's wife a very odd & usual question; are you happy at the elevation of your husband to directors level? "Does your husband make you happy at home?
The husband, Ajay, who at that moment was not at her side, but was sufficiently near to hear the question, became alert and, paid attention to the conversation, sitting up slightly, feeling secure, even filling his chest lightly in pride & hope, that his wife would definitely not publically lower or degrade her husband, would answer affirmatively, since she had always been there for him during their marriage and generally in life.
Nevertheless, to both his & the others' surprise, she replied simply;
"No, no he doesn't make me happy…" who is he to make me happy?
The room became uncomfortably silent as if everyone were listening to the spouse's response. they all expected some exposure of a sort.
There was a sudden coldness in the air. The husband was petrified.
A frown appeared on his face. He couldn't believe what his wife was saying, especially at such an important occasion for him.
To the amazement of her husband & of everyone!
Anita sat up firmly & explained in a modest but stern tone to the other wives who were present;
"No, he doesn't make me happy… I AM HAPPY. The fact that I am happy or not doesn't depend on him but on me.AND my own thoughts
GOD has granted each of us intellect & discretion to reason, interpret & decide.
No matter how much you learn from other teachers in school or college life, our training starts at home in the lap of our mother. Amongst the first teachers in the world, are at home. Moms teach basics at home and Dads teach, how to deal with the world outside. ..my dad carried me on his shoulders to show me around and kept me tied with his chest when I felt insecure, My Dad taught me how to be generous while being strong with a message that no one can afford to be indecent with you if you are strong, how to always be nice to the neighbourhood as a tough time they are the first aid when you are in trouble? how to take first steps to rally people around for a good cause; being socially active without being politically ambitious, how some of the available time and money needs to be spent on society, how to keep emotions in control; not to dance when happy and not to weep when sad ... At the outside world, every friend and adversary I met, taught me something. Thanks all. You all will remain my teacher, forever. TO TOP IT ALL I CAN NOT FORGET THE SEEDLINGS WHICH MY TEACHERS GAVE IN SCHOOL WHICH HAS MADE ME WHAT I AM TODAY? HATS OFF TO MY TEACHERS AND GUIDES.
ARE YOU HAPPY ??
We ARE all searching for happiness. it does not come with our wishes
In achieving this happiness our attitude in life plays a crucial role. one instance goes like this:----
After years of hard dedicated service to his Company, Ajay was being appointed at an elegant reception as the new Director.
It was a small function where his wife Anita, a Home Executive & some of the wives of the other persons in top management were also present.
In an adjacent room, Ann, the wife of the CEO of the Company, asked Ajay's wife a very odd & usual question; are you happy at the elevation of your husband to directors level? "Does your husband make you happy at home?
The husband, Ajay, who at that moment was not at her side, but was sufficiently near to hear the question, became alert and, paid attention to the conversation, sitting up slightly, feeling secure, even filling his chest lightly in pride & hope, that his wife would definitely not publically lower or degrade her husband, would answer affirmatively, since she had always been there for him during their marriage and generally in life.
Nevertheless, to both his & the others' surprise, she replied simply;
"No, no he doesn't make me happy…" who is he to make me happy?
The room became uncomfortably silent as if everyone were listening to the spouse's response. they all expected some exposure of a sort.
There was a sudden coldness in the air. The husband was petrified.
A frown appeared on his face. He couldn't believe what his wife was saying, especially at such an important occasion for him.
To the amazement of her husband & of everyone!
Anita sat up firmly & explained in a modest but stern tone to the other wives who were present;
"No, he doesn't make me happy… I AM HAPPY. The fact that I am happy or not doesn't depend on him but on me.AND my own thoughts
GOD has granted each of us intellect & discretion to reason, interpret & decide.
GOD made me the person upon which my happiness depends.
I make the choice to be happy in each situation at each moment of my life.
If my happiness were to depend on other people, on other things or circumstances on the face of this earth, I would be in serious trouble!
Over my life I have learned a couple of things:
I decide to be happy & the rest is a matter of 'experiences or circumstances' like helping, understanding, accepting, listening, consoling & with my spouse, I have lived & practised this many times.
Honestly, true happiness lies in being content"
Moral of the story is :
Happiness will always be found in contentment, forgiveness & in loving yourself & others.
To love everyone is difficult, but it is to forgive unconditionally which gives you immense satisfaction, to live, to take the "experiences or circumstances" as they are, facing them together & being happy with conviction.
There are those who say I cannot be happy :
· Because I am sick.
· Because I have no money.
· Because it's too cold.
· Because they insulted me.
· Because someone stopped loving me.
· Because someone didn't appreciate me.
Because someone cheated me and took my money
But what you don't know is that you can be happy even though you are sick, whether it is too hot, whether you have the money or not, whether someone has insulted you, or someone didn't love you or hasn't valued you.
Being Happy is an attitude about life & each one of us must decide!
I make the choice to be happy in each situation at each moment of my life.
If my happiness were to depend on other people, on other things or circumstances on the face of this earth, I would be in serious trouble!
Over my life I have learned a couple of things:
I decide to be happy & the rest is a matter of 'experiences or circumstances' like helping, understanding, accepting, listening, consoling & with my spouse, I have lived & practised this many times.
Honestly, true happiness lies in being content"
Moral of the story is :
Happiness will always be found in contentment, forgiveness & in loving yourself & others.
To love everyone is difficult, but it is to forgive unconditionally which gives you immense satisfaction, to live, to take the "experiences or circumstances" as they are, facing them together & being happy with conviction.
There are those who say I cannot be happy :
· Because I am sick.
· Because I have no money.
· Because it's too cold.
· Because they insulted me.
· Because someone stopped loving me.
· Because someone didn't appreciate me.
Because someone cheated me and took my money
But what you don't know is that you can be happy even though you are sick, whether it is too hot, whether you have the money or not, whether someone has insulted you, or someone didn't love you or hasn't valued you.
Being Happy is an attitude about life & each one of us must decide!
