If you love or respect a person, you need to express and show it clearly

 The great english poet " JOHN DONNE" once said  "Death you be not proud of your self? ,you are  not the greatest loss in life .but a peaceful transition from sound sleep which relieves us from our stale life." when we sleep during night  and we enjoy every bit of it, even if it is for few hours, then how death could be painful which is a long uninterrupted sleep for ever? , He had held, that death was more meaningful than mere sleep.


 However The greatest loss which a human being suffers in his life time is when his Relationship with others around him  expires , while still  being alive. His brothers ,sisters ,friends start retreating away from him for one or the other reason? it would be very wise to Respect each Relationship with utmost care and deep concern..


 Remember BELL has No SOUND Till Someone RINGS it. SONG has No TUNE Till Someone SINGS it. So never Hide your FEELINGS,Unexpressed & unspoken words  have no effect at all .Be not Shy in expressing your Feelings to Loved ones if U want Relationships to be practically stable, no body has the time to read your mind "whether you love or hate him"? 
Never take any thing for granted ,every relationship once made has to be nurtured with regular connect and appreciations ,howsoever deep or close that may be !

My independence day in india

मुझे आजाद हुए ६३ साल हो गए हैं , पर मेरा देश अभी भी कुछ भृष्ट लोगो  के कब्जे में है और आजादी के लिये तड़प रहा है? , है कोई महात्मा गाँधी इस दुनिया में जो इस भरष्टाचार को भी जड़ से मिटा सके ,और देश को इन गद्दारों से मुक्ति दिला सके ,

कोम्मोन्वेअल्थ  खेलों के लिए दिये गए ३६०००.०० crores ,अपने 

 फायेदे के लिये ,गबन कर लिये हैं ,सारा पैसा लूट कर देश को नंबर  one चोर की कतार में ला खड़ा  किया है 
 ?

"A" SHATTERED DREAM

WILDEST THOUGHTS LAND IN YOUR MIND THE MOMENT YOU ARE RESCUED FROM A IMMINENT DANGER TO YOUR LIFE ?

I landed safely after the turbulent flight from NewYork to New Delhi (INDIA) at the brand new  opened Swanky IGI airport , though still partly  under construction,but WITH A world class,feel was delightful treat to our eyes starving for a change in india ? i felt happy at the view of india also being counted as world class destination in New Delhi , with this brick and mortar changes in our surrounding , there are continuous changes going with in our selves too .


(!) I. am trying to Make peace with my turbulent past, and accepting the changes coming in my way  where i had to loose many of my peaceful moments of my life. solely because my life was dictated by a failed system mired with corruption , or even corrupted relations going soar in and around our families ,i was trying to forget it all ,
so that it doesn't come in the way of my present changed  life .

 (2.) What other people think of me, is their choice & sweet will ; is none of MY business. I did my best to help them in every point of time they needed me  ,But  if they chose to betray my faith it is they who lost their character  integrity and not me . If they stick to their one point agenda of their own selfish goals it is their choice

(3.) Every body PEELS and rubs salt  on your wounds, sprays caustics  to give you pains in life. but thanks God , Time ultimately heals, why not then  give time a free hand ,to take it's own course to heal instead of taking any counter charge ?


(4.) I have of late realized that  No one can make me happy, except my own      positive thinking and meaning full living , earlier i realized ,will be much  better for me in the long run to my life.


(5.)  I Don't compare MY life with other's, Because I am not sure of their purpose of life. They might  have different priorities in their life! than mine ?


(6)  Why not make our own life our pride and other's ENVY??
MERELY THINKING OR PREACHING WILL NOT SERVE ANY PURPOSE, we will have to act right away.....to effect the change which we are envisaging ?


Rajinder.K.Nagpal
.(a self revelation )